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Until this country moves past labels (black, white, brown, green, etc) there will never be harmony.
We need to look at the guy next to us and think, FELLOW AMERICAN!
Changes are slowly occurring, but there are obstacles, call it racist, but English should be the official language of the U.S.
When I first put on a badge there were damn few black cops. Now it's much more common. Guess what I see when I see a black cop? BLUE!
A year ago I hired a guy for a Supervisors position. Guess what...he was black. Why did I pick him? Because he was the best qualified person for the job. And time has proved me right, he is doing a great job.
But racism works both ways. Case in point...
Around 10 years ago my wife's cousin abandoned her daughter. She was half black. We made the decision to try and adopt her.
So we apply (the mother signed away parental rights), DFS does the home study and makes the recommendation that we be allowed to adopt her.
So we go before family court in KCMO to complete the adoption. The judge makes a statement that even though we are related and DFS approved us that "she needs to be with her own people" WTF!!! She is half black / half white. Oh, and BTW the judge was black.
Well to make a long story short, she is still in the system and at her age she will never be adopted.
If this wasn't blatent racism I don't know what else you could call it.
I was raised in a "color blind" home. I asked my father once "Why aren't you a member of Molia (Shriners)?"
He immediately was angry, he stated "Because they will not allow colored people in" (back in the sixties it was "colored people")
When I was riding with the local HOG group, we had a member who made a big push to sign several of us up for Molia. I said "No Thanks".
He asked why, I explained why. End of that story.
It's up to EVERYONE to end this!
Let's get past labels!
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I pretty much agree... and you are mostly preaching to the choir on this one... :)
Sadly, I think there are far more black folks that are racists, resent whites or just want to use them as a crutch/excuse for their failures or when things don't go their way...
Of course there are no factual statistics to this, its an observation from what I see (Where I went to school - mostly Black, in my Neighborhood, family, work, down in the country where I tend to spend a lot of time, stores, bars, facebook, youtube, other net sites, etc) 9 times outta 10, we are getting the blame for something that happened generations before our time... No one I know had anything to do with it, no one, that anyone I know, knows anyone that had anything to do with it...
I treat everyone alike (kindness and respect) till they give me a reason not too...
And on a side note, Why is it that no other races that are born here or come America cry about racism like some black folks do?