If you're working in Bremerton and the wife in Tacoma, I would suggest looking at places anywhere between Bremerton and Tacoma, close to access to Hwy 16. The traffic on Hwy 16 on the entire stretch from Bremerton to Tacoma is virtually nonexistant, with the only real jams being in morning/evening for about an hour when PSNS (I assume you're transferring there) day starts and ends. The jam is only a pretty small area around Bremerton itself. Once you cross the Tacoma Narrows bridge, everything goes south IMO.
I believe Kitsap Rifle & Revolver Club is the local IDPA/3-gun range. Personally I don't go there, but it's an excellent range. I prefer Poulsbo Sportsmans Club as its a bit more laid back for bench rested plinking.
I doubt there's anything you can find in Nevada that you couldn't get here. My only suggestion would be to sell any guns you want to get rid of BEFORE you move, since we are now saddled with retarded UBC requirements on private sales thanks to the passage of I-594. Other than that, basically anything goes guns-wise in WA, except for SBS and MGs.