Unfortunately, the 3 lug attachment is proprietary. If you haven't purchased a TP9 yet, your best bet is to track down and purchase one of the first generation DS Arms imports that had a threaded barrel guide.
A word of warning regarding suppressing the platform. There was a gentleman over on Silencer Talk that damaged his barrel after fabricating an adapter for the first generation barrel guide for a suppressor he already had. Because of the unique action of the platform, excess back pressure turns the rotating barrel into a piston and hammers it against the retaining pin. That is why the B+T/Rotex suppressor has such a huge volume. It's hard to swallow the cost of a suppressor that costs as much as the weapon!
IIRC, Thompson Machine produced suppressors for the TP9. I'm in Illinois, so my experience with suppressors is very, very limited. From what I have read and been told, there is a notable amount of gas that gets redirected to the shooter.
I would recommend heading over to Silencer Talk for better information. I'm trying to track down the armorer's manual for another member here (sorry I haven't found it bud!) and can send you a copy if you'd like when I find it.