Glad your loads worked out. I love success stories from new reloaders.
Primer issue....not the primer, they weren't seated fully.
First hit seats them, second hit fires them. The ones that fired on the first hit were seated properly.
Were you using Mil cases that the primer crimp still remains?
This is a common issue for new reloaders. When seating primers, you should feel when they seat.
Primer is moving, then stops....that's what you want to feel. That's when you stop the seating pressure.
Get into the habit of inspecting seated primers. They should be .002 to .003 below flush.
This is how I check primers. Hold box at an angle and you should see a thin strip of brass above the primer of each case. The icon is pointing to one such case.
I've been loading many years and I check every primer I seat. Good luck