I'm not so sure the bullet diameter really is a big deal. Generally you can shoot a slightly larger diameter bullet without much trouble. A common trick for old worn out rifles with pitted barrels is to use a .311 diameter bullet in a pitted .308 bullet, to grip that worn rifling better, and can turn such into a tack-shooter. Ruger's mini-30 uses a .308 diameter barrel to shoot .311 soviet 7.62X39 ammo. It has essentially no effective, when you are only talking a couple thousands difference.
Then you have the added bonus of not shooting the right shape/construction bullets. You CAN shoot lead in a 9mm. But it'll usually lead up, due to the higher velocity. Also, I'm assuming this isn't a Glock or other Polygonol barrel? With the weird shape, you could get a lot of jams. Jams that might push your bullet back into the casing. I can tell you first hand, pushing a 9mm bullet back into the case can really jack up pressure.
Here's what *I* would do if dead set on using those bullets.. Find a published load for a heavy lead bullet. Pick the slowest burning powder convenient from that load. Back it off a bit, make a few test rounds, and do that. I'd use a Lee factory crimp die, which squishes the round a bit, and then crimp with a heavy crimp on the collar. I'd go slow powder, to give it more time to squish the bigger bullet in the forcing cone - a fast powder might give you some surprises. But really - I'd just save those bullets for the Revolver - you shoot it anyway.
Here's what *you* should do. You sound somewhat new. I don't know your experience level, and you are doing 2 non-standard things at once (lead, and oversized). If I were you, I'd wait, and try to find some ball. My personal favorite for super cheap:
http://www.shop.rmrbullets.com/9mm-115-grain-Plated-round-nose-1000-count-1000-9mm-115-RNP.htm