Throw that damn neck sizer away and listen very, very closely. Get a good FL die - Redding, RCBS, Forster. I prefer Redding. Next, screw the die down into the press until it contacts the top of the ram, then back it out one turn. Take a fired round, lube it, and smoke the shoulder area with a match or candle, get it good and black. Run the case up into the die, look at the smoked area; if you don't see a ring in the middle of the shoulder down to the brass, turn the die down in another 1/8 turn and repeat. Continue until the brass comes out of the die with a clean ring just through the soot down to the brass in the middle of the shoulder. The ring must be to the brass, not just smudging the soot. When you have that result, lock the die ring and don't change it. End of problems forever.