Dammit! I just got home from work and I was at a store briefly that sells almost all of what you guys recommended.
The pants are off, ain't no way I'm going back out tonight.
Stupid me, I was thinking more on the lines of sticking something INSIDE the unit to soften the noise, makes sense that layering the OUTSIDE would dampen the vibrations and then the noise as well. I can get clay pretty cheap so I'm going to first give that a shot and then pick up some of that material you guys posted.
As far as ventilation we're good. I shoot with the blower on and a few strategically placed fans so it all gets sucked out of the basement right away. I had noticed that, before I set all that up, there was wafts of lead powder in the air coming out of the trap after the bullet disintegrated. Can't have THAT linger around!
Lastly, if you are not startled at a titty bar by the incredible noise of thongs then you're going to the wrong bar.