I hear you. Although I've had a few .380s over the years, I got out of .380 quite a few years ago and never wanted to get back into it.
A few years ago, my mother decided she wanted to get her CCW. I tried to give her advice about what to get and she didn't listen and ended up with a 1st Gen LCP with LaserMax laser. She has arthritis in her hands pretty badly and, after getting it home, found out that she couldn't work the slide at all. Her arthritis wouldn't let her grip the slide firmly enough to retract it. I traded her the LCP for my S&W M649 .357 snubbie because she couldn't afford to buy another gun right then and found her some standard pressure .38 hollow points, She LOVES it and, with standard pressure ammo, recoil is mild enough for her to actually be able to shoot it. It meant, though, that I now had a .380.
I took it out and, lo and behold, it shot pretty well for a tiny gun having practically non-existent sights and a DAO trigger. I qualified with it at my PD job and carried it on those rare occasions when I needed a gun but couldn't print at all or had to go REALLY low profile. My big problem is that it is so small that I have a hard time properly gripping it because I have large hands. If I have time to make sure I grip it properly, no problem. If I have to grab it quickly and can't take time to adequately grip it, I have problems shooting it. When you think about it, if you need your gun, do you honestly think you'll have time to make sure you have a good grip? Probably not.
Last fall during qualifications, a guy brought out a Glock 42 to qualify with. Now, I'd heard and read all the bitches about the G42 when they came out. I didn't have any direct experience with one, so I believed them. After actually handling and shooting the G42, I found that, while the barrel and slide are longer than the LCP, the grip is about the same length as the LCP (because of the size of my hands, I HAVE to use the finger extension magazine base plate; without the extension base plate, the LCP is a little shorter than the G42). It is just enough bigger that I can shoot it pretty well but still small enough for pocket carry (although it is at the upper size limit for me), so I bought one to replace the LCP. Although I haven't qualified with it yet, I have been carrying it around the house in the morning, when I am in sweat pants before getting a shower (in fact, it's in my pocket as I type this).
So now, here I am, going from not wanting any .380s at all, to having 2, within a few years. My youngest daughter is very small for her age and the LCP fits her well and she shoots it pretty well, so at my wife's urging, she will be getting it for her birthday this July. So now, when we have the $$$, I'm going to get set up to reload .380, as well. She loves shooting the LCP and I love shooting my G42, so it also went from something I just shot maybe a couple hundred rounds a year, to something that will probably be shot in reasonably high volume between my daughter and I. Kinda pisses me off a little. I didn't want anything at all to do with .380 and was trying to standardize all my "social" guns in 9mm, now it has a definite place in my house.
Bub75