Yes, I use the large straps all around and still find the grip a bit small. I'd like a little more real estate for my support hand than I get:
As for the amount of finger on the trigger, no offense intended, but I've always found that to be a load of bull. Jerry Jones says it better than I can around the 1:25 mark:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNVYu3koF4o
If I use the distal pad, this is what it looks like:
Let me tell you that you get a cramp pretty quickly shooting that way. It's not easy these days finding a pistol that fits big hands well, with everyone wanting smaller and smaller.
Anyway, I'll update if I'm able to reshape it successfully. Again, only doing it because I have the spare. Not something I'd normally do to a firearm, much less an HK. I was real excited to get the VP9 and hope I can make it enjoyable to shoot.