The flipper would be a waste of money in my eyes, it will work fine for lower receiver work but never use that thing for anything other than dusting off your upper, is not made to assemble/dismantle an upper and you will end up with busted upper at the least performing some operations. For assembling or other major upper work your going to want either a clam shell type, 2 piece top and bottom type (that slides onto the top rail of the upper and pins into the takedown lugs) or a reaction rod type tool. You'll also need v- blocks or some other sort of barrel vice blocks mainly for muzzle device work but also for other random tasks that they come in handy for.
As far as what I'd do in your position right now, whatever's lower parts kit without trigger is cheapest and of decent lineage, geissle ssa-e, damage industries ecs stock, bcm buffer tube kit, bcm elw 16" with kmr13 (and I think they're still coming with free bcg and comp), magpul pro front and rear sights, aimpoint pro and a Rainier raptor charging handle. Swap grip to whatever you like (magpul moe+ in my case).
I'd personally also put a v7 ambi short throw selector, end plate/castle nut, seekins bolt catch and mag release button, bcm keymod qd sling attachment, blue force gear vcas sling with s/s damage industries qds, wolffe XP buffer spring and h2 buffer from wherever had best deal.
And I think that just about does it. Good luck on your adventure into brd, it brings much joy and many smiles. Follow nates videos (very detailed and excellent information contained in every one I've seen posted along with very nice camera work not seen all to often in these kind of videos), read and research parts before you buy them, ask as many questions as you need to here and you'll come out the other side unscathed and the owner of a brand new self gratifying bad ass home built stick that you'll be proud as shit of. Then shoot it till you need to ask how to rebarrel it.
Oh yeah, buy every magazine (good alum. Or pmag, lancer) that you can afford too.