I've used EoTechs (552s and EPXS 3-0), Aimpoints (M2, M4, and T-1) and ACOGs (TA31RCO-M4 and TA31RCO-A4 (the A4 on an M4 with no adverse effect), as well as TA-31 and 33) extensively in the Infantry and as a recreational shooter.
I also have a Colt built like my duty M4 and have swapped Aimpoints, EoTechs, and ACOGs on it periodically. The only optic that I won't use again is an Aimpoint M2, which I've posted about failing me in Iraq.
I'm currently running a Comp M4 on it, despite my preference for EoThings. Of all of them, I feel best-equipped on the road or outdoors with ACOGs. However, if you're primarily running the gun unsupported and within 50m or even 100m, between the two, the M4 will likely be more gratifying and useful. If you will be shooting primarily from the prone, kneeling/standing supported, or from a bench, or if you live in an open area, the ACOG might be preferred.
Like you, I plan on keeping this one Colt somewhat faithful my weapons in the OIF/OEF era and the choices you've mentioned will be good to go. Since both the Aimpoint M4 and an ACOG TA31RCO-M4 are so useful, you might consider going with one or the other first based on whether you're shooting on the move/supported or primarily within/beyond 100m and go that way first, but getting both in LaRue or other reliable mounts when you can to switch between based on your travels or range time. Plenty of duty guns have used LaRue mounts, so I don't think you'll be subtracting anything in terms of faithfulness to the clone.
If you plan on using this clone for HD, go with the Aimpoint. Magnifiers, even though I own/use them, generally are not that amazing or as useful as folks anticipate, especially with Aimpoints. So if you are anticipating relying on one heavily to split the difference, just go with the ACOG and work on your BAC skills or piggy back a Docter or RMR.
If I could only have one and it was for serious social matters, it would be a 1x. However, my eyes suck these days and magnification is nice. I've got some other very nice variables from various manufactures and, in my opinion, the ACOGs have the nicest image quality. If you're going to drop $1K on a combat optic, ACOGs are GTG. I did have a RCO go tits up, and Trijicon took great care of me, for what it's worth.
Of course, all that said, I'm using an M4 since I've always been more concerned about nearer threats, and even with aging eyes, I'm pretty dangerous out to a few hundred meters.