9mm blowback ARs are FILTHY. It's the nature of the cartridge and the blowback system. Almost all of the crud is sooty rather than the kind of baked-on crap you get on bolt tails in a DI AR. Yucky but not a real problem.
No telling where that bur came from. It could have been from a number of issues, including a manufacturing defect, a leaky primer, or "other." Having a spare firing pin isn't a bad thing, but I'll bet the old one will work fine once you removed the bur.
Some 9mm bolts are profiled differently from others. If the rear of the bolt, especially the ramp, is as close as possible to the profile of an M16 carrier, then any hammer that looks close to an M16 hammer will work fine. (The trigger itself isn't relevant, just the hammer profile.)
The 9mm bolt has a couple of odd roll pins, the extractor is unique, and you may want to get a spare ejector and ejector pin. Not that any of those pins are likely to fail on you, but having them in case you have to replace the extractor or ejector (which might actually fail after a lot of use) isn't a bad idea.