Sorry OP. I'm here, but don't hang in this forum really. Just stopped by and saw your post.
The ladies on this forum are kind of a mix. Some of us are serious shooters, others are married to serious shooters and enjoy the company of folks who shoot (both male and female). There are some females on the forum that are not obviously females at first.
I hang in some of the technical forums, which are almost always open to questions from women shooters, though they are nearly ALL dominated by men.
Unfortunately the all-female gun forums I've been on are mostly dead-boring and have few members. It would be lovely if that would change.
There is good info here, but it takes a while to find your way around and into it.
If you ask a specific question, you'll almost always get answers, but you may have to wait for others to get online and see/respond.