I'll try to get a pic of my shit tonight... ]=)
The cornerstone of your setup (and MOST important piece) will be your main speakers. Left, Right, and Center. This means you should shell out at least $600 a speaker for something very solid to kick ass. A LOT of very nice stuff out there to choose from, I would stay away from Bose...
You'll then want a nice Receiver, the Sony ES line was mentioned, and a very solid setup for a GREAT cost. We're talking affordable and solid performance. Personally I shelled out some big bucks for a system which never plays music, so it was a bit of a waste. Plan on spending $600+ here on the receiver and more if you go with separates. (Amps and tuner, etc) Again, for the price and features, the Sony stuff is great! (DTS and DolbyDigital in one shot and you'll want them both!)
Next you'll want a sub and a pair of rear speakers. The sub is what I would call an essential for movies. This is where you not only get that kick ass bass, but if used right, you will FEEL certain movies. (War movies feel like a punch in the gut with explosions!!!) Ok, ok, so at times it's a bit much on the sub, but seriously, you'll notice it!!! SO GET IT! ($400+) As for the rears, get a decent set of speakers, can be matched with yer fronts or not, doesn't really matter. I would settle for a mid range set so you can save some money, something small in size (2' or smaller in height) on stands or wall mounts (properly pointed) in the area of $150+ per speaker... again this is where you can cut back a bit.
Now the center of your entire world...
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DVD Players...
Here I shop ONLY quality. I got a first generation Sony DVP9000 the first DAY they came out. I now have 3 dvd players and it is by far the best still. (Looking to upgrade to the newest 9000 when I upgrade my theatre.) I would stick with SONY or TOSHIBA as they are the originators of the DVD. Don't worry about any bullshit people will tell ya about a DVD player with decoders for DTS or Dolby5.1, your receiver will deal with that, all you need is a simple kick ass DVD player!!! (I blew $1k on the 9000, not sure what they're up to now. This will run ya roughly $500+ last time I checked for the upper end models. The DVP300 (Sony) I think runs around $250-$300 and is the LOWEST I would ever go!)
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