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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:09:08 AM EDT
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Page 2 says it's the second most solemn day of the year for me, after Pearl Harbor Day.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:10:22 AM EDT
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Not a pussy at all.  I cry seeing those pictures.  It puts perspective on life and loving the ones you have that much more.  
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:15:45 AM EDT
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No, it's a necessary reminder.

I'm driving across the state to help my aging parents visit our family's grave sites. Among those is a marker for a man whose remains are still overseas.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:21:38 AM EDT
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You won't hear me calling you a pussy.

Carry on.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:24:59 AM EDT
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For all of you who wore or are wearing a uniform, you are the best of us.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:35:12 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:41:48 AM EDT
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I would think poorly of anyone who didn't get at least a little moved but that photo.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:46:09 AM EDT
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In before the guy here that calls them attention whores.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:51:34 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 10:59:59 AM EDT
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You weren't




God Bless America
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 11:03:05 AM EDT
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This one gets me weeping every single time:

http://www.blackfive.net/photos/uncategorized/2007/04/12/christian.jpg



That kid, trying so hard to stay strong, and the Marine's body language just aches for the kid's loss...


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This photo. Every time.




Link Posted: 5/28/2016 11:25:33 AM EDT
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As an Army medic   ......  this weekend tuff.......
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 11:28:14 AM EDT
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OP is NOT a pussy...





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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 11:43:32 AM EDT
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No, but it is a "Take time to remember why" thread.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 11:48:51 AM EDT
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Your not one OP. Pictures like that will make me tear up as well.

All everyone seems to do is get drunk and party on Memorial Day weekend without any regard as to why the day even exists. I'm not saying to sit around and have a cry fest but at least take the time to acknowledge why your able to kick back and drink a cold one.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 11:56:33 AM EDT
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Thanks for the reminders, guys.

We shouldnt need them, but Im glad they are posted.

It just slowed my roll, stressing on guests, car problems, past due bills....those guys dont get to worry about that shit any more...i wish they were still with us to deal with the trivial tnings in our lives.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:03:29 PM EDT
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Just got really fucking dusty in here....
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:07:49 PM EDT
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You have to move on, it is not healthy to camp out on a grave. We don't know how long ago he was KIA..but you must work thru the 5 steps of loss, Elizabeth Kubler Ross is an excellent author on the subject.

By seeing the baby is under a year, I guess she is still early in the grieving  stage. When u see this 5 yrs down the road,  you like the attn it brings and get a kick out of seeing yourself on FB with people crying over it.Sad and harsh , but true.
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That can't be healthy


Say what?




You have to move on, it is not healthy to camp out on a grave. We don't know how long ago he was KIA..but you must work thru the 5 steps of loss, Elizabeth Kubler Ross is an excellent author on the subject.

By seeing the baby is under a year, I guess she is still early in the grieving  stage. When u see this 5 yrs down the road,  you like the attn it brings and get a kick out of seeing yourself on FB with people crying over it.Sad and harsh , but true.


Or maybe, just maybe, it was a love that comes only once in a lifetime that was cut short tragically? Sometimes you find something you know can never be replaced.

I mean really, you're calling anyone that does that after some shrink's predefined "grieving period" an attention whore? On is site, in this thread, on this weekend? Really?
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:09:19 PM EDT
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Nah, too late.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:10:35 PM EDT
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These two in particular always get to me.



Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:12:50 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:17:37 PM EDT
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You guys are killing me

Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:25:23 PM EDT
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This one gets me weeping every single time:



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That kid, trying so hard to stay strong, and the Marine's body language just aches for the kid's loss...





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That one gets me.



I used to do funeral details, had to present the flag a few times, it was tough. I did it pre GWOT so I never had to present the flag to a young spouse or child, thank God.



 
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:25:56 PM EDT
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I'll be cracking open several cervesas this weekend.  Most for me.  Some for my friends.  RIP brothers.  I miss you.

ETA - One beer will be a Budweiser for E4 Blaine J Shepherd.  Even after 47 years, my dad still thinks about you every day.  Thank you for keeping him safe.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:26:07 PM EDT
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No not a pussy. That pic could easily be my baby sister but with 3 little kids. See my sig line.

RIP Ronald, you are remembered everyday.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:27:45 PM EDT
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My God it is getting dusty in here.






Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:28:22 PM EDT
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I think this was the first of these that I saw, and it's the one my mind always goes back to.
It hit me hard then, it still does now.

Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:28:27 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:31:18 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:33:23 PM EDT
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Not at all OP!!
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:38:06 PM EDT
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If those pictures don't break your heart, you have no heart.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:40:13 PM EDT
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Dang Allergies. ..

Expect more when you see Taking Chance. It's a must-see for all Americans.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:40:43 PM EDT
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Very sad.  
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:43:13 PM EDT
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This one gets me weeping every single time:

http://www.blackfive.net/photos/uncategorized/2007/04/12/christian.jpg



That kid, trying so hard to stay strong, and the Marine's body language just aches for the kid's loss...


Every time.
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Fuck it I can't take this thread anymore :'(
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:47:37 PM EDT
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It gives me the melancholy real fast.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:49:25 PM EDT
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This one gets me weeping every single time:

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That kid, trying so hard to stay strong, and the Marine's body language just aches for the kid's loss...


Every time.
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That's the one that gets me.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:51:42 PM EDT
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Motherfucker
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:52:43 PM EDT
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"It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived."
 George S. Patton

Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:56:04 PM EDT
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No way OP is a pussy.


If anyone has ever had a dad, mom, brother or sister have to bail, you know this is a possible reality.


Shared to the Facebook group.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:57:34 PM EDT
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This one gets me weeping every single time:

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That kid, trying so hard to stay strong, and the Marine's body language just aches for the kid's loss...


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That's the one. I figured it was what the OP was going to post.

Dammit, man that hits me right in the feels. Lump in my throat large enough to be painful.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 12:58:49 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 1:04:02 PM EDT
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Now that's powerful. They say a picture is worth 1000 words but those are worth more words.

 
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 1:16:52 PM EDT
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Now that's powerful. They say a picture is worth 1000 words but those are worth more words.  
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The bottom one absolutely kills me.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 1:17:25 PM EDT
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I think this was the first of these that I saw, and it's the one my mind always goes back to.
It hit me hard then, it still does now.

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I think this was the first of these that I saw, and it's the one my mind always goes back to.
It hit me hard then, it still does now.



My mom is buried in a veteran's cemetery (my dad is a Vietnam vet).
I have seen that scene in person, it is gut wrenching.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 1:24:29 PM EDT
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You say that like it's a bad thing.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 2:20:16 PM EDT
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You can keep your Man card.  It gets to me too, and I know that I'm not a pussy!
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 2:31:03 PM EDT
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I didnt need to open this thread.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 2:37:08 PM EDT
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God damn this is a tough thread. Really lost it with those two kids.
Link Posted: 5/28/2016 2:46:43 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/28/2016 2:53:21 PM EDT
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sad but not to the point of crying, sad though
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