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Posted: 11/18/2015 8:04:31 AM EDT

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prayers sent man

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:19:25 AM EDT

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I don't understand this you think you are being a responsible parent and doing the best thing for your child and it lead to this it's unreal.

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My cousin took their 18 month old for vaccinations the middle part of last week.

Sunday night she had a low grade fever, she was dead Monday morning.

I don't understand this you think you are being a responsible parent and doing the best thing for your child and it lead to this it's unreal.

I've often wondered about this... I've rarely heard of vaccinations resulting in death, but many believe they lead to autism and other problems. My personal feeling, vaccinations are safe.. but something that is in a small percentage of the population (and I have no idea what)... somehow just doesn't work with them and then we have a tragedy like you have experienced.

I wish there was an easy, concrete answer... but I doubt there ever will be.

Continuing to pray for you guys.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:44:41 AM EDT

[#3]

So sorry for your loss OP, prayers sent.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:50:30 AM EDT

[#4]

Know that you will meet again someday

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:50:35 AM EDT

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Damn, man. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He looks like he was a great little kid.

Thanks for sharing his pictures with us and I hope your family can heal from this.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:55:40 AM EDT

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As the father of a 2 year old boy, I'm so sorry man.

Looking at the little guy in your pics breaks my heart, he was beautiful.

Posted: 11/18/2015 11:32:46 AM EDT

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I keep checking in here Lohe, thinking about you guys and hoping you get some answers. They won't change anything, but I know I would want them.

For the others who have posted their losses (direct or friends/family), very sorry for your losses as well.

Posted: 11/18/2015 3:42:15 PM EDT

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My cousin took their 18 month old for vaccinations the middle part of last week.

Sunday night she had a low grade fever, she was dead Monday morning.

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Damn. My daughter is almost 17 months. This makes me not want to give her vaccinations.

Posted: 11/18/2015 3:42:46 PM EDT

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So sorry for your loss.

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Posted: 11/18/2015 5:21:04 PM EDT

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My friend sent me this yesterday at least I tried everything that I could.

When we got to the hospital I couldn't stand to watch as they worked on him I remember looking over and watching one of the EMTs crying and the other hugging him. As the life flight crew stood by to transport him to Primary Children's hospital if he became more stable.

Today we went to the maturey and saw him for the first time since Sunday also had some people come out and make hand and foot cast molds while we where there. I had called the detective yesterday asking when we could get his bedding back and he just brought it to us today and sounds like it can take 12+ weeks for the autopsy results. Not that it really matters it doesn't change anything. I am trying my best not to dwell on the what ifs as they are endless.

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:25:32 PM EDT

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Guy hug sent.

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:32:29 PM EDT

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:36:39 PM EDT

[#13]

Sorry for your loss

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:37:00 PM EDT

[#14]

Damn man...........I'm very sorry. May god bless you and your wife.

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:42:38 PM EDT

[#15]

Prayers sent brother

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:51:16 PM EDT

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I keep coming back to this thread and always shed some tears. I'm a few weeks from having our first son and your family is in my thoughts. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Posted: 11/18/2015 5:52:45 PM EDT

[#17]

Prayers...

Posted: 11/18/2015 7:46:08 PM EDT

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The link to the Gofundme was mentioned earlier. Striker has approved posting it: https://www.gofundme.com/deahw98c

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Just quoting for anyone who is able and missed the link previously.

Lohe, my family continues to think of you and yours. Please don't hesitate to ask if you can think of anything we can do for you, your wife or your daughter while you deal with all that you must. Please let us help in anyway possible, especially with the holidays and your precious daughter.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:04:11 PM EDT

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He,s in God,s hands. As are we all.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:04:41 PM EDT

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Still praying for and thinking about you and your family.

Wes

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:18:04 PM EDT

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As an RN who works in an ER, I'm pretty much crying right now. Words can't begin to describe how terrible you must feel. Not fair that a beautiful young child was taken from you. You WILL see him again though.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:44:37 PM EDT

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Prayer sent, sorry for your loss and it is the mother of all nightmares.

I have to say in cases like this it sure seems that there may be a link between vaccinations and illness/death in the very young. Even if a very small % have severe immuno response it is reasonable to question the practice. My son spiked a 104.5 fever after receiving one of the required vaccinations. He had all kinds of problems for a few weeks afterwards. I shrugged it off as a secondary illness from a stressed immune system but I hear enough of these stories to wonder.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:49:37 PM EDT

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I don't know how I missed this thread.

I have no words. As a father, it's impossible to even imagine what you are going through right now.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:50:09 PM EDT

[#24]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Just remember that you will one day see him again.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:50:43 PM EDT

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Prayers sent for you and your family.

Beyond that I have no words.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:51:37 PM EDT

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That's a nightmare OP.

I am so afraid of something like this happening. My daughter is 3 months - I'm so paranoid about it that it makes me sick.

So sorry for your loss.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:51:51 PM EDT

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I'm sorry for your loss. I don't know if you are a spiritual person but I will say a few prayers for you and your family.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:52:41 PM EDT

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Posted: 11/18/2015 8:54:17 PM EDT

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I'm truly sorry. I can't imagine your pain. I wish that something no one had to experience.

Posted: 11/18/2015 8:54:38 PM EDT

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OMG I am so sorry OP. My prayers for you and your family. I cannot imagine your pain right now.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:05:48 PM EDT

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I'm so sorry. Prayers for you and your family.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:06:10 PM EDT

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Doesn't get any easier to have any child of your's die.
I share your pain.
Had my son die in January from cancer.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:13:53 PM EDT

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Man, so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful little boy. Rest in peace, little fella.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:18:54 PM EDT

[#34]

My sincerest condolences. I am truly sorry for your loss. I will keep you, your familiy, and your son in my prayers.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:20:29 PM EDT

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No parent should have to bury a child, especially one so young. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:20:46 PM EDT

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I've struggled with this thread for two night shifts now. Seeing it pop up on page one over and over. I've said prayers. Teared up. Called and woke my wife up to check on our 6mo old that just had shots yesterday. Held him and spent all my time before work tonight just loving on him. I can only imagine the pain your family is in sir. I pray for your comfort and understanding during this difficult time in your life. Just know that your son has touched my life and spoken to me about some things I need to do better. Be strong for your other children. They will need you more than ever.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:23:16 PM EDT

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I've been sitting here for 15 minutes trying to think of something to say. There's no words.

I'm truly sorry for your loss, and I'll be praying for you and your family.

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Posted: 11/18/2015 9:23:43 PM EDT

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Sorry for your loss OP, thinking about you and your wife during this unimaginable time.

Rest in Peace Dylan ....

Chris

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:25:00 PM EDT

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I have one this age. Thoughts sent.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:26:29 PM EDT

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This is probably -- definitely -- the biggest blow that a man can take, I truly empathize.

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:28:02 PM EDT

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My sincerest condolences. No other words...

Posted: 11/18/2015 9:30:15 PM EDT

[#42]

Thoughts and prayers go out to you you and your family.

I cannot express in words my sorrow I feel for you.

Posted: 11/18/2015 10:12:08 PM EDT

[#43]

Praying for you and your family

Posted: 11/18/2015 10:23:05 PM EDT

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Prayers sent, and condolences. I know it's not much but sorry for your loss. Hang in there, it does get easier with time.

Posted: 11/19/2015 12:27:25 AM EDT

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I had to check this thread again and the tears keep coming.
I'm so sorry for your loss and I shared the GFM.
I'll donate in the AM

Posted: 11/19/2015 12:34:03 AM EDT

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As a father this is one of the hardest things to deal with. My condolences to you and yours.

Posted: 11/19/2015 2:14:27 AM EDT

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Doesn't get any easier to have any child of your's die.
I share your pain.
Had my son die in January from cancer.

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Man, I am very sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine what you have gone through. You have my deepest sympathy and very best possible wishes.

Posted: 11/19/2015 2:25:44 AM EDT

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bless him and all family. cant imagine.

Posted: 11/19/2015 2:51:31 AM EDT

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As the father of a 2 year old, I don't think I would want to fathom your pain and grief. Thank the Lord for the time you had with your son, and may you and your wife find a way to cope. I'm sorry for your loss.. Words are failing me at this point, so God be with you and your family.