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Posted: 11/3/2015 3:16:30 PM EDT
good options please
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She can't shut you off if she doesn't know where you're getting it.
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I have the exact opposite problem. Mine wants sex all the time but not really for fun as she keeps reminding me how much she wants a baby.
Now I'm the one that doesn't want sex lol |
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Sex was part of the deal. If one person isn't holding up their end of the deal, give them every opportunity to fix it, then divorce for cause.
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She needs to compromise.
If she never wants it, and you want it every day, then you need to have sex every other day. That's only fair. Every other day you each get what you want. |
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How old are you guys.
It may be a hormone issue. Is it you or her who has little interest in sex |
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Hookers? Rub and Tug joint?
Find a good Asian Massage Parlor, and become a regular.... Probably the cheapest solution in the long run... |
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The Bunny Ranch
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Be very careful whom you marry. The wrong woman can make your life hell, and being married to her is a million times worse than staying single.
Sorry OP. |
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Did I make it in before, "It's all you, nothing wrong with her"?
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Porn, cheating, divorce are your only real options that don't include you know, talking to your wife and working out your marriage issues.
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My wife doesn't seem interested after she had the baby 13 weeks ago today. We've messed around
but no fulfilling action. Sucks because fapping does get old. I'm not the kind of guy to cheat so I guess I'll wake her up one morning with my dick in her face jacking off. That should get the point across. |
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Define "sexless".
Less than 5 times per year? I know certain birth controls will kill a sex drive. Quoted:
Porn, cheating, divorce are your only real options that don't include you know, talking to your wife and working out your marriage issues. View Quote Communication is huge too. |
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I have the exact opposite problem. Mine wants sex all the time but not really for fun as she keeps reminding me how much she wants a baby. Now I'm the one that doesn't want sex lol View Quote It's like punching the clock isn't it. I had to put out at 5 am the other morning before I left for work. |
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Years ago, Swingset had a very profound, lengthy post about what happens to a relationship where there isn't sex. Maybe someone can find that.
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seriously, ask her if she cares if you jack it to porn then. im genuinely curious to see what she says to that.
assuming the issue isnt that she sees you as disgusting in some way. are your teeth nasty? breath stink? dress/act like a slob? body odor? get some exercise and be more healthy? what have you tried? |
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Oh, yeah - also take a REAL good look at whether she is *really* not having sex.
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The reason you're in a sexless relationship doesn't have anything to do with you not celebrating your wife's birthday "weekend" over going hunting on opening day does it.... cause.... that's been known to cause a riff in relationships and create a 14 page thread between BigEasySnow and Alex_F on ArfCom.... Just saying....
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Take care of yourself.
Whatever you do you'll need to make a strong effort to not develop resentment. It can burrow and lash out. |
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seriously, ask her if she cares if you jack it to porn then. im genuinely curious to see what she says to that. assuming the issue isnt that she sees you as disgusting in some way. are your teeth nasty? breath stink? dress/act like a slob? get some exercise and be more healthy? what have you tried? View Quote My wife has offered, and I think she would go through with it and hate me/herself afterwards, to get me a hooker. We've had sex maybe a half dozen times in the last 15 months since our 3rd child was born. Her hormones have been off this time around. She didn't breastfeed for very long with the 1st two and I've read that can cause hormone issues resulting in a lower libido. I'm hoping once she's done with breastfeeding it'll get better. |
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If you want a serious answer, we need more details.
Is she just not putting out? Are you being reasonable? Is this a new development or was there some forseeable lead-up to this? We of course need to rule out medical conditions as well. What are the religious/cultural backgrounds of the parties? What major life events have occurred within a reasonable timeframe? Think a death in the family, birth of a child, major illnesses, financial trouble, etc. The only useful advice I can give you at this point is that it is worthless to attempt to think seriously about the issue or indeed talk to your wife about it while your balls are full. Seriously, don't even try. Men cannot trust themselves to make good decisions on matters of sex and romance except in the 20-30 minutes immediately following ejaculation. It's science. |
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The reason you're in a sexless relationship doesn't have anything to do with you not celebrating your wife's birthday "weekend" over going hunting on opening day does it.... cause.... that's been known to cause a riff in relationships and create a 14 page thread between BigEasySnow and Alex_F on ArfCom.... Just saying.... View Quote link? |
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Jerk off into her favorite pair of shoes every day.
Sooner or later she'll figure out that it's easier to clean her vag out than it is her shoes. |
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Sorry bud. Counseling blows as well not really working. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I got rid of her. bu-bye.... thats kindve where i am headed as well Me too Sorry bud. Counseling blows as well not really working. It can work as long as both parties acknowledge that there is a problem. If one person says "There's nothing wrong with our marriage - if he's unhappy HE needs to be the one to change", don't bother (except to be able to check that box off of the "irreconcilable differences" checklist.) |
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The reason you're in a sexless relationship doesn't have anything to do with you not celebrating your wife's birthday "weekend" over going hunting on opening day does it.... cause.... that's been known to cause a riff in relationships and create a 14 page thread between BigEasySnow and Alex_F on ArfCom.... Just saying.... link? Here ya go... |
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