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Posted: 11/3/2015 3:16:30 PM EDT
good options please
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:17:14 PM EDT
[#1]
Lots of fapping?
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:17:15 PM EDT
[#2]
i dunno bud in the same boat lol so i am no help.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:17:57 PM EDT
[#3]
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:18:28 PM EDT
[#4]
Anal didn't work out for you?
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:18:29 PM EDT
[#5]
I got rid of her.  bu-bye....
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:18:31 PM EDT
[#6]
She can't shut you off if she doesn't know where you're getting it.

Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:18:53 PM EDT
[#7]
Beat off on her pillow.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:25 PM EDT
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thats kindve where i am headed as well
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:39 PM EDT
[#9]
I have the exact opposite problem. Mine wants sex all the time but not really for fun as she keeps reminding me how much she wants a baby.

Now I'm the one that doesn't want sex lol
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:41 PM EDT
[#10]
Sex was part of the deal.  If one person isn't holding up their end of the deal, give them every opportunity to fix it, then divorce for cause.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:44 PM EDT
[#11]
Do you two have kids?
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:55 PM EDT
[#12]
She needs to compromise.

If she never wants it, and you want it every day, then you need to have sex every other day.

That's only fair. Every other day you each get what you want.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:56 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:58 PM EDT
[#14]
How old are you guys.

It may be a hormone issue.

Is it you or her who has little interest in sex
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:19:58 PM EDT
[#15]
Eat box then Lay pipe.

Rinse and repeat.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:20:00 PM EDT
[#16]
Hookers? Rub and Tug joint?

Find a good Asian Massage Parlor, and become a regular....

Probably the cheapest solution in the long run...
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:20:07 PM EDT
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thats kindve where i am headed as well
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thats kindve where i am headed as well


Me too
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:20:09 PM EDT
[#18]
In....
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:20:10 PM EDT
[#19]
Sounds like my ex wife.



Fuck. That. Shit.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:20:13 PM EDT
[#20]
The Bunny Ranch


< edited because some browsers convert a web address to an active link - HS >
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:20:38 PM EDT
[#21]
Any kids involved?  
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:04 PM EDT
[#22]
Be very careful whom you marry.  The wrong woman can make your life hell, and being married to her is a million times worse than staying single.

Sorry OP.  
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:07 PM EDT
[#23]
Did I make it in before, "It's all you, nothing wrong with her"?
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:09 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:12 PM EDT
[#25]
Porn, cheating, divorce are your only real options that don't include you know, talking to your wife and working out your marriage issues.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:18 PM EDT
[#26]
My wife doesn't seem interested after she had the baby 13 weeks ago today.  We've messed around
but no fulfilling action. Sucks because fapping does get old. I'm not the kind of guy to cheat so I guess
I'll wake her up one morning with my dick in her face jacking off.  That should get the point across.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:41 PM EDT
[#27]
Define "sexless".

Less than 5 times per year?





I know certain birth controls will kill a sex drive.

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Communication is huge too.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:45 PM EDT
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I have the exact opposite problem. Mine wants sex all the time but not really for fun as she keeps reminding me how much she wants a baby.

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It's like punching the clock isn't it.  I had to put out at 5 am the other morning before I left for work.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:21:53 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:22:03 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:22:11 PM EDT
[#31]
Years ago, Swingset had a very profound, lengthy post about what happens to a relationship where there isn't sex. Maybe someone can find that.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:22:39 PM EDT
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Sorry bud.  Counseling blows as well not really working.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:22:44 PM EDT
[#33]
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I was dealing with that before the baby.  Sex became a chore.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:22:46 PM EDT
[#34]
seriously, ask her if she cares if you jack it to porn then.  im genuinely curious to see what she says to that.

assuming the issue isnt that she sees you as disgusting in some way.  are your teeth nasty?  breath stink?  dress/act like a slob?  body odor?  get some exercise and be more healthy?  what have you tried?
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:23:42 PM EDT
[#35]
Oh, yeah - also take a REAL good look at whether she is *really* not having sex.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:24:13 PM EDT
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This
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:24:23 PM EDT
[#37]
The reason you're in a sexless relationship doesn't have anything to do with you not celebrating your wife's birthday "weekend" over going hunting on opening day does it.... cause.... that's been known to cause a riff in relationships and create a 14 page thread between BigEasySnow and Alex_F on ArfCom.... Just saying....
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:24:59 PM EDT
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He's right you know...



 
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:07 PM EDT
[#39]
Take care of yourself.



Whatever you do you'll need to make a strong effort to not develop resentment. It can burrow and lash out.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:22 PM EDT
[#40]
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seriously, ask her if she cares if you jack it to porn then.  im genuinely curious to see what she says to that.

assuming the issue isnt that she sees you as disgusting in some way.  are your teeth nasty?  breath stink?  dress/act like a slob?  get some exercise and be more healthy?  what have you tried?
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My wife has offered, and I think she would go through with it and hate me/herself afterwards, to get me a hooker. We've had sex maybe a half dozen times in the last 15 months since our 3rd child was born. Her hormones have been off this time around. She didn't breastfeed for very long with the 1st two and I've read that can cause hormone issues resulting in a lower libido. I'm hoping once she's done with breastfeeding it'll get better.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:28 PM EDT
[#41]
Micro USB powered Fleshlight
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:39 PM EDT
[#42]
If you want a serious answer, we need more details.

Is she just not putting out?  Are you being reasonable?  Is this a new development or was there some forseeable lead-up to this?  We of course need to rule out medical conditions as well.  What are the religious/cultural backgrounds of the parties?  What major life events have occurred within a reasonable timeframe?  Think a death in the family, birth of a child, major illnesses, financial trouble, etc.


The only useful advice I can give you at this point is that it is worthless to attempt to think seriously about the issue or indeed talk to your wife about it while your balls are full.  Seriously, don't even try.  

Men cannot trust themselves to make good decisions on matters of sex and romance except in the 20-30 minutes immediately following ejaculation.  It's science.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:44 PM EDT
[#43]
A sexless marriage isn't even a marriage.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:48 PM EDT
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link?
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:25:50 PM EDT
[#45]
Too tired at night? Slip her the D right when you wake up.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:26:08 PM EDT
[#46]
Try to fix things. If it doesn't work, split.
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:26:16 PM EDT
[#47]
Jerk off into her favorite pair of shoes every day.

Sooner or later she'll figure out that it's easier to clean her vag out than it is her shoes.

Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:26:47 PM EDT
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Sorry bud.  Counseling blows as well not really working.
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Me too



Sorry bud.  Counseling blows as well not really working.


It can work as long as both parties acknowledge that there is a problem.  If one person says "There's nothing wrong with our marriage - if he's unhappy HE needs to be the one to change", don't bother (except to be able to check that box off of the "irreconcilable differences" checklist.)
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:27:10 PM EDT
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I have the exact opposite problem. Mine wants sex all the time but not really for fun as she keeps reminding me how much she wants a baby.



Now I'm the one that doesn't want sex lol
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Tag-team, I'm so in?



Get those kids flowing!



 
Link Posted: 11/3/2015 3:27:43 PM EDT
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The reason you're in a sexless relationship doesn't have anything to do with you not celebrating your wife's birthday "weekend" over going hunting on opening day does it.... cause.... that's been known to cause a riff in relationships and create a 14 page thread between BigEasySnow and Alex_F on ArfCom.... Just saying....


link?



Here ya go...
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