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Look at her  relationship with her father and her  mother's butt.

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It's not just "daddy issues".

If she doesn't have a healthy relationship with both of her parents, it will cause problems over time.

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Look at her  relationship with her father and her  mother's butt.

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You can't escape from the friend zone.

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You can't escape from the friend zone.

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- A lady will always test your confidence. (Often by being, as modern sitcoms call it, "sarcastic"). She is testing your masculinity. If she finds a way to call you low value and you flinch, your value just dropped.
If you constantly do what she tells you to, your value is probably gone. If you're at "choreplay", it's over, you've been friendzoned.
Women  (on the whole, not all) prefer a confident positive guy. A warm tree to lean on when it gets windy and dark. Occasionally she'll test how strong the tree is. She'll swing on its branches, climb, hit nails into the side. If the tree stands, it's a strong tree. If the first time she tests it, the branch snaps? Weak tree, she wants no part of it. If you're less confident than she is, that's a major fail. That's failing calculus when you want to be an engineer
"jerks" will pass these tests as they genuinely do not give a shit about her (they care about themselves, and that's it), technically they're a better tree than betamcneckbeard, and more confident, and more attractive too. This is why she puts up with his "won't commit, doesn't call her back, says mean things", ass, for years.

- "Just get out there and be yourself" is a lie if you're a man.
It works for women - you can be pretty and sit around, somewhat charming - entertain offers from men, reject the ones you don't like.
(until/unless looks fade due to age, out of shape etc. It's at this point that many women will scramble to get married, they are suddenly getting less attention, and the quality of the guys is falling.)
If you're a man, in order to get an equivalent status, you need to be, do, and achieve. Look physically capable, work on your social confidence/polish (ESPECIALLY if it doesn't come naturally to you).
Jerks are somebody - be somebody. Because if you're not somebody, you're nobody, and even a 45 year old 300lb single mom doesn't "want no scrub".

- Avoid ones with massive instagram/social media followings. Yes she doesn't have the benefits of a singular relationship if she's single, but she's getting attention and praise from dozens of orbiting guys, all the time. If she's been single awhile and is accomplished at farming male attention, she's used to going to parties and getting male attention.
When suddenly she doesn't have 5 guys every party telling her how smart, and funny and XYZ she is, even if she's dumb as shit and her being "Funny" amounts to laughing at dane cook jokes.
When she doesn't have guys offering to buy her drinks all the time - she will get unhappy, and she will paste this unhappiness onto you.
Bruh, you can't fix that.

- The only one who cares about your happiness, is you bro. Society doesn't, your friends might not, your church group probably doesn't, attorneys don't, divorce courts don't, she won't, and perhaps your parents won't.
"Just do the "right thing" and accept your unhappiness, do more and lower your expectations" will make your life unrewarding. Ignore it.
If you keep yourself happy, it makes it easier for you to be the confident masculine man that you were, when the lady wanted you.
You can be nice as you want (and appropriately showing affection to your lady is important), but if she doesn't respect you, this is equivalent to her not loving you.
Weak tree? She doesn't want to sit under it.

- "Unicorn class" women are really, really rare. They exist, and they're lovely to be around. It's what makes sifting through the haystack worth it, that's my opinion anyway.
Smart, lovely, don't make sport of. Not all women are exactly the same

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Nah, I have a feeling it was dead on.

Whatevs

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Look back at the family tree before making a decision to join said tree.  If your potential SO's mother and/or grandmother have traits you don't like, odds are she will have the same or similar traits.  I am not just talking genetics.  Ugly mood swings, bad attitude, financial malfeasance, being mean or rude to people, any evidence of psychiatric issues, etc. can all be leading indicators of future issues that will befall you.  It is rare for the apple to fall far from the tree.

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Nah, I have a feeling it was dead on.

Whatevs

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"You look fine, lets go!" Just doesn't go over well, in my experience

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when somebody accuses you of doing something that you arent, they are.

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Look at her  relationship with her father and her  mother's butt.

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Do women on predominantly female sites bitch about men?  I'll bet they do.

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when somebody accuses you of doing something that you arent, they are.

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- A lady will always test your confidence. (Often by being, as modern sitcoms call it, "sarcastic"). She is testing your masculinity. If she finds a way to call you low value and you flinch, your value just dropped.
If you constantly do what she tells you to, your value is probably gone. If you're at "choreplay", it's over, you've been friendzoned.
Women  (on the whole, not all) prefer a confident positive guy. A warm tree to lean on when it gets windy and dark. Occasionally she'll test how strong the tree is. She'll swing on its branches, climb, hit nails into the side. If the tree stands, it's a strong tree. If the first time she tests it, the branch snaps? Weak tree, she wants no part of it. If you're less confident than she is, that's a major fail. That's failing calculus when you want to be an engineer
"jerks" will pass these tests as they genuinely do not give a shit about her (they care about themselves, and that's it), technically they're a better tree than betamcneckbeard, and more confident, and more attractive too. This is why she puts up with his "won't commit, doesn't call her back, says mean things", ass, for years.

- "Just get out there and be yourself" is a lie if you're a man.
It works for women - you can be pretty and sit around, somewhat charming - entertain offers from men, reject the ones you don't like.
(until/unless looks fade due to age, out of shape etc. It's at this point that many women will scramble to get married, they are suddenly getting less attention, and the quality of the guys is falling.)
If you're a man, in order to get an equivalent status, you need to be, do, and achieve. Look physically capable, work on your social confidence/polish (ESPECIALLY if it doesn't come naturally to you).
Jerks are somebody - be somebody. Because if you're not somebody, you're nobody, and even a 45 year old 300lb single mom doesn't "want no scrub".

- Avoid ones with massive instagram/social media followings. Yes she doesn't have the benefits of a singular relationship if she's single, but she's getting attention and praise from dozens of orbiting guys, all the time. If she's been single awhile and is accomplished at farming male attention, she's used to going to parties and getting male attention.
When suddenly she doesn't have 5 guys every party telling her how smart, and funny and XYZ she is, even if she's dumb as shit and her being "Funny" amounts to laughing at dane cook jokes.
When she doesn't have guys offering to buy her drinks all the time - she will get unhappy, and she will paste this unhappiness onto you.
Bruh, you can't fix that.

- The only one who cares about your happiness, is you bro. Society doesn't, your friends might not, your church group probably doesn't, attorneys don't, divorce courts don't, she won't, and perhaps your parents won't.
"Just do the "right thing" and accept your unhappiness, do more and lower your expectations" will make your life unrewarding. Ignore it.
If you keep yourself happy, it makes it easier for you to be the confident masculine man that you were, when the lady wanted you.
You can be nice as you want (and appropriately showing affection to your lady is important), but if she doesn't respect you, this is equivalent to her not loving you.
Weak tree? She doesn't want to sit under it.

- "Unicorn class" women are really, really rare. They exist, and they're lovely to be around. It's what makes sifting through the haystack worth it, that's my opinion anyway.
Smart, lovely, don't make sport of. Not all women are exactly the same

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Can't believe no one has said horse chicks are crazy. They are