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Look at her relationship with her father and her mother's butt.
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Stop looking for a girlfriend... Look for a best friend.
Or don't look at all, and one might find you. Still waiting to find mine, but I'd rather be content alone than be with the wrong person for the sake of being with someone. It's not fulfilling, and usually ends badly. Glad I've learned that at 23, even if it is a very hard principle to live by at times. |
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Look back at the family tree before making a decision to join said tree. If your potential SO's mother and/or grandmother have traits you don't like, odds are she will have the same or similar traits. I am not just talking genetics. Ugly mood swings, bad attitude, financial malfeasance, being mean or rude to people, any evidence of psychiatric issues, etc. can all be leading indicators of future issues that will befall you. It is rare for the apple to fall far from the tree.
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If they didn't have a vagina there'd be a bounty on 'em I am so fucking sick of seeing this shit on here. If they can't take a joke.... forget 'em It's much less of a joke when you see it in every thread on the subject. |
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It's not just "daddy issues". If she doesn't have a healthy relationship with both of her parents, it will cause problems over time. View Quote Yes, "mommy issues" can be just as bad. And they can come to light in the strangest ways. Ever see someone use a razor blade to carve a Christmas tree design into the back of their hand? Or flog their own back to the point that it bleeds through their shirt? Very disturbing, especially when there is nothing you can do to help other than try to get the person psychiatric help. The crazy gene may or may not skip generations, but if it does skip a generation, it may be doubly bad on the next receiving generation, like crazy times two. |
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Can't believe no one has said horse chicks are crazy. They are
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Yes, "mommy issues" can be just as bad. And they can come to light in the strangest ways. Ever see someone use a razor blade to carve a Christmas tree design into the back of their hand? Or flog their own back to the point that it bleeds through their shirt? Very disturbing, especially when there is nothing you can do to help other than try to get the person psychiatric help. The crazy gene may or may not skip generations, but if it does skip a generation, it may be doubly bad on the next receiving generation, like crazy times two. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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It's not just "daddy issues". If she doesn't have a healthy relationship with both of her parents, it will cause problems over time. Yes, "mommy issues" can be just as bad. And they can come to light in the strangest ways. Ever see someone use a razor blade to carve a Christmas tree design into the back of their hand? Or flog their own back to the point that it bleeds through their shirt? Very disturbing, especially when there is nothing you can do to help other than try to get the person psychiatric help. The crazy gene may or may not skip generations, but if it does skip a generation, it may be doubly bad on the next receiving generation, like crazy times two. holy shit.... |
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When you meet a new girl .... take a sneak peek at the passenger compartment of her car. It's about 20 sq feet on average ( depends on the car ) If she cannot keep IT clean and orderly ... there is ZERO probability she can keep a tidy 2000 sq feet house. 2. The only time a woman looks around under the bed and in the closets for a hidden lover is if she has been there herself a few times. |
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Agreed ! Desperate times call for desperate measures .... You can always just 'drop trou' and go bare pickle right infront of her when she least expects it |
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You can't escape from the friend zone. Try harder. Agreed ! Desperate times call for desperate measures .... You can always just 'drop trou' and go bare pickle right infront of her when she least expects it seems reasonable, let us know how that works out |
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You can't escape from the friend zone. Try harder. Agreed ! Desperate times call for desperate measures .... You can always just 'drop trou' and go bare pickle right infront of her when she least expects it Make sure to helicopter it too, for maximum effect. |
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- A lady will always test your confidence. (Often by being, as modern sitcoms call it, "sarcastic"). She is testing your masculinity. If she finds a way to call you low value and you flinch, your value just dropped. If you constantly do what she tells you to, your value is probably gone. If you're at "choreplay", it's over, you've been friendzoned. Women (on the whole, not all) prefer a confident positive guy. A warm tree to lean on when it gets windy and dark. Occasionally she'll test how strong the tree is. She'll swing on its branches, climb, hit nails into the side. If the tree stands, it's a strong tree. If the first time she tests it, the branch snaps? Weak tree, she wants no part of it. If you're less confident than she is, that's a major fail. That's failing calculus when you want to be an engineer "jerks" will pass these tests as they genuinely do not give a shit about her (they care about themselves, and that's it), technically they're a better tree than betamcneckbeard, and more confident, and more attractive too. This is why she puts up with his "won't commit, doesn't call her back, says mean things", ass, for years. - "Just get out there and be yourself" is a lie if you're a man. It works for women - you can be pretty and sit around, somewhat charming - entertain offers from men, reject the ones you don't like. (until/unless looks fade due to age, out of shape etc. It's at this point that many women will scramble to get married, they are suddenly getting less attention, and the quality of the guys is falling.) If you're a man, in order to get an equivalent status, you need to be, do, and achieve. Look physically capable, work on your social confidence/polish (ESPECIALLY if it doesn't come naturally to you). Jerks are somebody - be somebody. Because if you're not somebody, you're nobody, and even a 45 year old 300lb single mom doesn't "want no scrub". - Avoid ones with massive instagram/social media followings. Yes she doesn't have the benefits of a singular relationship if she's single, but she's getting attention and praise from dozens of orbiting guys, all the time. If she's been single awhile and is accomplished at farming male attention, she's used to going to parties and getting male attention. When suddenly she doesn't have 5 guys every party telling her how smart, and funny and XYZ she is, even if she's dumb as shit and her being "Funny" amounts to laughing at dane cook jokes. When she doesn't have guys offering to buy her drinks all the time - she will get unhappy, and she will paste this unhappiness onto you. Bruh, you can't fix that. - The only one who cares about your happiness, is you bro. Society doesn't, your friends might not, your church group probably doesn't, attorneys don't, divorce courts don't, she won't, and perhaps your parents won't. "Just do the "right thing" and accept your unhappiness, do more and lower your expectations" will make your life unrewarding. Ignore it. If you keep yourself happy, it makes it easier for you to be the confident masculine man that you were, when the lady wanted you. You can be nice as you want (and appropriately showing affection to your lady is important), but if she doesn't respect you, this is equivalent to her not loving you. Weak tree? She doesn't want to sit under it. - "Unicorn class" women are really, really rare. They exist, and they're lovely to be around. It's what makes sifting through the haystack worth it, that's my opinion anyway. Smart, lovely, don't make sport of. Not all women are exactly the same View Quote Preach! Holy shit. |
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You can't escape from the friend zone. Try harder. Agreed ! Desperate times call for desperate measures .... You can always just 'drop trou' and go bare pickle right infront of her when she least expects it seems reasonable, let us know how that works out It's called 'Naked man' and it works 2/3 of the time. |
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- A lady will always test your confidence. (Often by being, as modern sitcoms call it, "sarcastic"). She is testing your masculinity. If she finds a way to call you low value and you flinch, your value just dropped. If you constantly do what she tells you to, your value is probably gone. If you're at "choreplay", it's over, you've been friendzoned. Women (on the whole, not all) prefer a confident positive guy. A warm tree to lean on when it gets windy and dark. Occasionally she'll test how strong the tree is. She'll swing on its branches, climb, hit nails into the side. If the tree stands, it's a strong tree. If the first time she tests it, the branch snaps? Weak tree, she wants no part of it. If you're less confident than she is, that's a major fail. That's failing calculus when you want to be an engineer "jerks" will pass these tests as they genuinely do not give a shit about her (they care about themselves, and that's it), technically they're a better tree than betamcneckbeard, and more confident, and more attractive too. This is why she puts up with his "won't commit, doesn't call her back, says mean things", ass, for years. - "Just get out there and be yourself" is a lie if you're a man. It works for women - you can be pretty and sit around, somewhat charming - entertain offers from men, reject the ones you don't like. (until/unless looks fade due to age, out of shape etc. It's at this point that many women will scramble to get married, they are suddenly getting less attention, and the quality of the guys is falling.) If you're a man, in order to get an equivalent status, you need to be, do, and achieve. Look physically capable, work on your social confidence/polish (ESPECIALLY if it doesn't come naturally to you). Jerks are somebody - be somebody. Because if you're not somebody, you're nobody, and even a 45 year old 300lb single mom doesn't "want no scrub". - Avoid ones with massive instagram/social media followings. Yes she doesn't have the benefits of a singular relationship if she's single, but she's getting attention and praise from dozens of orbiting guys, all the time. If she's been single awhile and is accomplished at farming male attention, she's used to going to parties and getting male attention. When suddenly she doesn't have 5 guys every party telling her how smart, and funny and XYZ she is, even if she's dumb as shit and her being "Funny" amounts to laughing at dane cook jokes. When she doesn't have guys offering to buy her drinks all the time - she will get unhappy, and she will paste this unhappiness onto you. Bruh, you can't fix that. - The only one who cares about your happiness, is you bro. Society doesn't, your friends might not, your church group probably doesn't, attorneys don't, divorce courts don't, she won't, and perhaps your parents won't. "Just do the "right thing" and accept your unhappiness, do more and lower your expectations" will make your life unrewarding. Ignore it. If you keep yourself happy, it makes it easier for you to be the confident masculine man that you were, when the lady wanted you. You can be nice as you want (and appropriately showing affection to your lady is important), but if she doesn't respect you, this is equivalent to her not loving you. Weak tree? She doesn't want to sit under it. - "Unicorn class" women are really, really rare. They exist, and they're lovely to be around. It's what makes sifting through the haystack worth it, that's my opinion anyway. Smart, lovely, don't make sport of. Not all women are exactly the same Preach! Holy shit. there's gotta be a story there |
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- A lady will always test your confidence. (Often by being, as modern sitcoms call it, "sarcastic"). She is testing your masculinity. If she finds a way to call you low value and you flinch, your value just dropped. If you constantly do what she tells you to, your value is probably gone. If you're at "choreplay", it's over, you've been friendzoned. Women (on the whole, not all) prefer a confident positive guy. A warm tree to lean on when it gets windy and dark. Occasionally she'll test how strong the tree is. She'll swing on its branches, climb, hit nails into the side. If the tree stands, it's a strong tree. If the first time she tests it, the branch snaps? Weak tree, she wants no part of it. If you're less confident than she is, that's a major fail. That's failing calculus when you want to be an engineer "jerks" will pass these tests as they genuinely do not give a shit about her (they care about themselves, and that's it), technically they're a better tree than betamcneckbeard, and more confident, and more attractive too. This is why she puts up with his "won't commit, doesn't call her back, says mean things", ass, for years. - "Just get out there and be yourself" is a lie if you're a man. It works for women - you can be pretty and sit around, somewhat charming - entertain offers from men, reject the ones you don't like. (until/unless looks fade due to age, out of shape etc. It's at this point that many women will scramble to get married, they are suddenly getting less attention, and the quality of the guys is falling.) If you're a man, in order to get an equivalent status, you need to be, do, and achieve. Look physically capable, work on your social confidence/polish (ESPECIALLY if it doesn't come naturally to you). Jerks are somebody - be somebody. Because if you're not somebody, you're nobody, and even a 45 year old 300lb single mom doesn't "want no scrub". - Avoid ones with massive instagram/social media followings. Yes she doesn't have the benefits of a singular relationship if she's single, but she's getting attention and praise from dozens of orbiting guys, all the time. If she's been single awhile and is accomplished at farming male attention, she's used to going to parties and getting male attention. When suddenly she doesn't have 5 guys every party telling her how smart, and funny and XYZ she is, even if she's dumb as shit and her being "Funny" amounts to laughing at dane cook jokes. When she doesn't have guys offering to buy her drinks all the time - she will get unhappy, and she will paste this unhappiness onto you. Bruh, you can't fix that. - The only one who cares about your happiness, is you bro. Society doesn't, your friends might not, your church group probably doesn't, attorneys don't, divorce courts don't, she won't, and perhaps your parents won't. "Just do the "right thing" and accept your unhappiness, do more and lower your expectations" will make your life unrewarding. Ignore it. If you keep yourself happy, it makes it easier for you to be the confident masculine man that you were, when the lady wanted you. You can be nice as you want (and appropriately showing affection to your lady is important), but if she doesn't respect you, this is equivalent to her not loving you. Weak tree? She doesn't want to sit under it. - "Unicorn class" women are really, really rare. They exist, and they're lovely to be around. It's what makes sifting through the haystack worth it, that's my opinion anyway. Smart, lovely, don't make sport of. Not all women are exactly the same Preach! Holy shit. there's gotta be a story there Needs to write a book. |
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If they didn't have a vagina there'd be a bounty on 'em I am so fucking sick of seeing this shit on here. You know what would happen if a man were to act like a woman (mind games/bitchy attitude) to another man? They'd stop associating with one another. So yeah. There's a pretty big reason men associate with women. You'll find it by looking down. |
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You know what would happen if a man were to act like a woman (mind games/bitchy attitude) to another man? They'd stop associating with one another. So yeah. There's a pretty big reason men associate with women. You'll find it by looking down. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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If they didn't have a vagina there'd be a bounty on 'em I am so fucking sick of seeing this shit on here. You know what would happen if a man were to act like a woman (mind games/bitchy attitude) to another man? They'd stop associating with one another. So yeah. There's a pretty big reason men associate with women. You'll find it by looking down. I'm sorry the women in your life suck. Thats probably a reflection on you. |
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If they didn't have a vagina there'd be a bounty on 'em I am so fucking sick of seeing this shit on here. You know what would happen if a man were to act like a woman (mind games/bitchy attitude) to another man? They'd stop associating with one another. So yeah. There's a pretty big reason men associate with women. You'll find it by looking down. I'm sorry the women in your life suck. Thats probably a reflection on you. Swing. Miss. Nice try. |
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If they didn't have a vagina there'd be a bounty on 'em I am so fucking sick of seeing this shit on here. You know what would happen if a man were to act like a woman (mind games/bitchy attitude) to another man? They'd stop associating with one another. So yeah. There's a pretty big reason men associate with women. You'll find it by looking down. I'm sorry the women in your life suck. Thats probably a reflection on you. Swing. Miss. Nice try. lol, this is not gonna turn out the way you're hoping. I'm just gonna watch. |
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Jane's First Law of Intimate Relationships: There is no person more likely to be unsatisfactory as a heterosexual lover than one who doesn't like the opposite sex. This is absolutely a two-way street. I mean, what man would be interested in a woman who made an avocation out of bitching about men the way some of y'all in this thread do about women. Nag, nag, nag . . . Gripe, bitch, piss, moan, and complain. About women. It's what SomeMen here do; it's the central pillar of their personality. I am merely the monster you (women) created.... |
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You can't escape from the friend zone. Try harder. Agreed ! Desperate times call for desperate measures .... You can always just 'drop trou' and go bare pickle right infront of her when she least expects it seems reasonable, let us know how that works out I needed this advice years ago... Where were you guys? |
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If they didn't have a vagina there'd be a bounty on 'em I am so fucking sick of seeing this shit on here. You know what would happen if a man were to act like a woman (mind games/bitchy attitude) to another man? They'd stop associating with one another. So yeah. There's a pretty big reason men associate with women. You'll find it by looking down. I'm sorry the women in your life suck. Thats probably a reflection on you. I have to agree with you. Many guys on this site seem to have serious issues with women. Don't know why that is. |
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Jealousy is a deal breaker. I think it is a probable indication of a lot of other things (i.e., low confidence, low/no self-esteem, transference, etc).
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- A lady will always test your confidence. (Often by being, as modern sitcoms call it, "sarcastic"). She is testing your masculinity. If she finds a way to call you low value and you flinch, your value just dropped. If you constantly do what she tells you to, your value is probably gone. If you're at "choreplay", it's over, you've been friendzoned. Women (on the whole, not all) prefer a confident positive guy. A warm tree to lean on when it gets windy and dark. Occasionally she'll test how strong the tree is. She'll swing on its branches, climb, hit nails into the side. If the tree stands, it's a strong tree. If the first time she tests it, the branch snaps? Weak tree, she wants no part of it. If you're less confident than she is, that's a major fail. That's failing calculus when you want to be an engineer "jerks" will pass these tests as they genuinely do not give a shit about her (they care about themselves, and that's it), technically they're a better tree than betamcneckbeard, and more confident, and more attractive too. This is why she puts up with his "won't commit, doesn't call her back, says mean things", ass, for years. - "Just get out there and be yourself" is a lie if you're a man. It works for women - you can be pretty and sit around, somewhat charming - entertain offers from men, reject the ones you don't like. (until/unless looks fade due to age, out of shape etc. It's at this point that many women will scramble to get married, they are suddenly getting less attention, and the quality of the guys is falling.) If you're a man, in order to get an equivalent status, you need to be, do, and achieve. Look physically capable, work on your social confidence/polish (ESPECIALLY if it doesn't come naturally to you). Jerks are somebody - be somebody. Because if you're not somebody, you're nobody, and even a 45 year old 300lb single mom doesn't "want no scrub". - Avoid ones with massive instagram/social media followings. Yes she doesn't have the benefits of a singular relationship if she's single, but she's getting attention and praise from dozens of orbiting guys, all the time. If she's been single awhile and is accomplished at farming male attention, she's used to going to parties and getting male attention. When suddenly she doesn't have 5 guys every party telling her how smart, and funny and XYZ she is, even if she's dumb as shit and her being "Funny" amounts to laughing at dane cook jokes. When she doesn't have guys offering to buy her drinks all the time - she will get unhappy, and she will paste this unhappiness onto you. Bruh, you can't fix that. - The only one who cares about your happiness, is you bro. Society doesn't, your friends might not, your church group probably doesn't, attorneys don't, divorce courts don't, she won't, and perhaps your parents won't. "Just do the "right thing" and accept your unhappiness, do more and lower your expectations" will make your life unrewarding. Ignore it. If you keep yourself happy, it makes it easier for you to be the confident masculine man that you were, when the lady wanted you. You can be nice as you want (and appropriately showing affection to your lady is important), but if she doesn't respect you, this is equivalent to her not loving you. Weak tree? She doesn't want to sit under it. - "Unicorn class" women are really, really rare. They exist, and they're lovely to be around. It's what makes sifting through the haystack worth it, that's my opinion anyway. Smart, lovely, don't make sport of. Not all women are exactly the same View Quote Quoted again, because guys who are having trouble with the ladies need to read this again. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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