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The problem is that an arbitrary age doesn't make a lot of sense for anything relating to this discussion. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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You'd still be punishing an adult because a 14 y/o lied to them. "Mom, I'm going to Cindy's house." "Just be back by 9." No one answered my previous question: Is there an age at which her lying about her age should not be a defense for the man? What if she was 13? 12? 11? 10? I've seen girls all those ages that could easily pass for 18. Currently there is no amount of due diligence that a guy can perform to make sure he has a defense, so what difference does the age of the girl make? That's the question. If the law is changed, as some propose, so that a girl lying about her age is a defense, what age do we use as a cut-off. I think we can all agree that a 2 y/o girl is not going to be mistaken for a 17 y/o girl, so what is the cut-off? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile The problem is that an arbitrary age doesn't make a lot of sense for anything relating to this discussion. You're right. No matter how you set it up to protect people, some people will end up being punished severely and others will squeak by when they shouldn't. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Nope, due diligence. It is amusing to see so many people defending his actions when they themselves would want his head on a platter if it was their daughter. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I can see both sides. If people weren't so quick to jump into bed, it would have likely come out that she was too young. Oh yeah, get a better lawyer next time. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Hooray for morality laws! Nope, due diligence. It is amusing to see so many people defending his actions when they themselves would want his head on a platter if it was their daughter. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Bold assumption given the girls mother said he was innocent. |
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Well the obvious solution is common sense background checks for makeup. There's no legitimate purpose for a girl under the age of 18 to wear makeup that makes them appear older.
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That's the question. If the law is changed, as some propose, so that a girl lying about her age is a defense, what age do we use as a cut-off. I think we can all agree that a 2 y/o girl is not going to be mistaken for a 17 y/o girl, so what is the cut-off? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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He's a law I'd like to see pass. If a 14 year old goes into a bar or has a fake ID and fucks an adult male, the girl's mother serves the term for statutory rape. You'd still be punishing an adult because a 14 y/o lied to them. "Mom, I'm going to Cindy's house." "Just be back by 9." No one answered my previous question: Is there an age at which her lying about her age should not be a defense for the man? What if she was 13? 12? 11? 10? I've seen girls all those ages that could easily pass for 18. Currently there is no amount of due diligence that a guy can perform to make sure he has a defense, so what difference does the age of the girl make? That's the question. If the law is changed, as some propose, so that a girl lying about her age is a defense, what age do we use as a cut-off. I think we can all agree that a 2 y/o girl is not going to be mistaken for a 17 y/o girl, so what is the cut-off? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Just spit ballin' here ...I'd say the same "reasonableness" standard applied to questionable LE actions OR it would have to be somehow puberty based (i.e. the actual sexual maturity level as determined by a physical exam performed by a doctor).to ever hope to have any hope of legitimacy. Like I pointed out earlier, if the FBI's own forensic anthropologist CANNOT determine the age at their level of education/training what fucking chance does the average schmoe on the street have, especially at 19 yrs. old. |
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Society has always tried to protect women from sexual predators. It used to do that through marriage. That made it easy to determine who was fuckable. Did she stand with you in the church? Yes = fuck. No = crime. It was also a fairly equal standard in that adultery was wrong for both parties. Now, we've kinda half-adopted the sexual revolution. We did away with marriage as the way to protect women, and instead have instituted a host of new laws - higher age of consent, sexual harassment, etc. to attempt to protect women. The problem is that it has devolved into a vague and amorphous double standard whereby if a woman wants to fuck around she is basically untouchable, even if she lies about her age, etc. But the moment she or someone else decides she was taken advantage of, she or her guardian can cry rape, statutory rape, sexual harassment, etc. and the man is basically guilty until proven innocent regardless of the circumstances.
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Society has always tried to protect women from sexual predators. It used to do that through marriage. That made it easy to determine who was fuckable. Did she stand with you in the church? Yes = fuck. No = crime. It was also a fairly equal standard in that adultery was wrong for both parties. Now, we've kinda half-adopted the sexual revolution. We did away with marriage as the way to protect women, and instead have instituted a host of new laws - higher age of consent, sexual harassment, etc. to attempt to protect women. The problem is that it has devolved into a vague and amorphous double standard whereby if a woman wants to fuck around she is basically untouchable, even if she lies about her age, etc. But the moment she or someone else decides she was taken advantage of, she or her guardian can cry rape, statutory rape, sexual harassment, etc. and the man is basically guilty until proven innocent regardless of the circumstances. Basically the whole thing reeks of hypocrisypatriarchy. View Quote |
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That's the question. If the law is changed, as some propose, so that a girl lying about her age is a defense, what age do we use as a cut-off. I think we can all agree that a 2 y/o girl is not going to be mistaken for a 17 y/o girl, so what is the cut-off? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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He's a law I'd like to see pass. If a 14 year old goes into a bar or has a fake ID and fucks an adult male, the girl's mother serves the term for statutory rape. You'd still be punishing an adult because a 14 y/o lied to them. "Mom, I'm going to Cindy's house." "Just be back by 9." No one answered my previous question: Is there an age at which her lying about her age should not be a defense for the man? What if she was 13? 12? 11? 10? I've seen girls all those ages that could easily pass for 18. Currently there is no amount of due diligence that a guy can perform to make sure he has a defense, so what difference does the age of the girl make? That's the question. If the law is changed, as some propose, so that a girl lying about her age is a defense, what age do we use as a cut-off. I think we can all agree that a 2 y/o girl is not going to be mistaken for a 17 y/o girl, so what is the cut-off? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile If the goal is Sharia law, and this is Michigan we're talking about, all we'd have to do is find a picture of Mohammad and his wives. Clearly that cut off is 8. Anyone younger lying to a man for sex and both parties get stoned to death. |
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And that is why you should never have sex with a girl until after you get married to her.
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That judge seemed to be harshly punishing the kid for what he perceived as sexual immorality, not necessarily breaking the law. I saw the judge bitched about how hookups are common in our culture, and that such behavior was "unacceptable". Sounds to me like the judge is very biased, and can't separate his personal opinions from his job. I hope things go better at the re-sentancing.
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That judge seemed to be harshly punishing the kid for what he perceived as sexual immorality, not necessarily breaking the law. I saw the judge bitched about how hookups are common in our culture, and that such behavior was "unacceptable". Sounds to me like the judge is very biased, and can't separate his personal opinions from his job. I hope things go better at the re-sentancing. View Quote That essentially IS the law, or the spirit of its lenience. They're colloquially referred to as Romeo & Juliet laws where "young lovers" who have been dating and are in a committed relationship get a pass but random hit it and quit it scenarios get punished. |
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That essentially IS the law, or the spirit of its lenience. They're colloquially referred to as Romeo & Juliet laws where "young lovers" who have been dating and are in a committed relationship get a pass but random hit it and quit it scenarios get punished. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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That judge seemed to be harshly punishing the kid for what he perceived as sexual immorality, not necessarily breaking the law. I saw the judge bitched about how hookups are common in our culture, and that such behavior was "unacceptable". Sounds to me like the judge is very biased, and can't separate his personal opinions from his job. I hope things go better at the re-sentancing. That essentially IS the law, or the spirit of its lenience. They're colloquially referred to as Romeo & Juliet laws where "young lovers" who have been dating and are in a committed relationship get a pass but random hit it and quit it scenarios get punished. Ah, no. That's not the law. The Romeo and Juliet thing is about age difference, not "hookup culture". |
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Ah, no. That's not the law. The Romeo and Juliet thing is about age difference, not "hookup culture". View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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That judge seemed to be harshly punishing the kid for what he perceived as sexual immorality, not necessarily breaking the law. I saw the judge bitched about how hookups are common in our culture, and that such behavior was "unacceptable". Sounds to me like the judge is very biased, and can't separate his personal opinions from his job. I hope things go better at the re-sentancing. That essentially IS the law, or the spirit of its lenience. They're colloquially referred to as Romeo & Juliet laws where "young lovers" who have been dating and are in a committed relationship get a pass but random hit it and quit it scenarios get punished. Ah, no. That's not the law. The Romeo and Juliet thing is about age difference, not "hookup culture". It varies state to state. MI doesn't have it explicitly by law, but the area does and he's reflecting that in his opinion. I already linked to this once, but here's Indiana state law. SECTION 45. IC 35-42-4-9
(e) It is a defense to a prosecution under this section if all the following apply: (1) The person is not more than four (4) years older than the victim. (2) The relationship between the person and the victim was a dating relationship or an ongoing personal relationship. Notice the phrase "ongoing personal relationship". The title Romeo & Juliet may only apply to (1), but some laws do reflect "offensive hookup culture." |
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It varies state to state. MI doesn't have it explicitly by law, but the area does and he's reflecting that in his opinion. I already linked to this once, but here's Indiana state law. Notice the phrase "ongoing personal relationship". The title Romeo & Juliet may only apply to (1), but some laws do reflect "offensive hookup culture." View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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That judge seemed to be harshly punishing the kid for what he perceived as sexual immorality, not necessarily breaking the law. I saw the judge bitched about how hookups are common in our culture, and that such behavior was "unacceptable". Sounds to me like the judge is very biased, and can't separate his personal opinions from his job. I hope things go better at the re-sentancing. That essentially IS the law, or the spirit of its lenience. They're colloquially referred to as Romeo & Juliet laws where "young lovers" who have been dating and are in a committed relationship get a pass but random hit it and quit it scenarios get punished. Ah, no. That's not the law. The Romeo and Juliet thing is about age difference, not "hookup culture". It varies state to state. MI doesn't have it explicitly by law, but the area does and he's reflecting that in his opinion. I already linked to this once, but here's Indiana state law. SECTION 45. IC 35-42-4-9
(e) It is a defense to a prosecution under this section if all the following apply: (1) The person is not more than four (4) years older than the victim. (2) The relationship between the person and the victim was a dating relationship or an ongoing personal relationship. Notice the phrase "ongoing personal relationship". The title Romeo & Juliet may only apply to (1), but some laws do reflect "offensive hookup culture." Note the phrase "All the following". |
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I have known Les for a few years. He's a good dude and he told me all about this in the spring. When he said he was going to bust it nationally I had no idea he would get this far.
This is bullshit, the girl and her mother agree. They screwed up by taking this crooked ass plea deal. |
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Yes because when we were teens we always asked for I.D ?? View Quote That's not the point. Many of the laws are so fucked up that even if you pick a girl up in an over 21 bar, you have her show you her ID just to be safe, you have sex with her and then she turns out to be under age, you will still be guilty. |
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You'd still be punishing an adult because a 14 y/o lied to them. "Mom, I'm going to Cindy's house." "Just be back by 9." No one answered my previous question: Is there an age at which her lying about her age should not be a defense for the man? What if she was 13? 12? 11? 10? I've seen girls all those ages that could easily pass for 18. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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He's a law I'd like to see pass. If a 14 year old goes into a bar or has a fake ID and fucks an adult male, the girl's mother serves the term for statutory rape. You'd still be punishing an adult because a 14 y/o lied to them. "Mom, I'm going to Cindy's house." "Just be back by 9." No one answered my previous question: Is there an age at which her lying about her age should not be a defense for the man? What if she was 13? 12? 11? 10? I've seen girls all those ages that could easily pass for 18. Doesn't matter the age. A woman / girl misrepresenting her age should be an affirmative defense. |
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I worked with a guy at one time who was a sex offender. Assuming he told the truth he was at a party w/ drinking age people and met a woman w/ 2 kids of different ages. Had sex with her and found out the next morning she was 14 IIRC. He got the felony conviction and sex offender for life. That's seriously fucked up. View Quote I can believe that. We had a girl graduate from High School here with three kids. Her oldest started school the year after she graduated. |
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I can believe that. We had a girl graduate from High School here with three kids. Her oldest started school the year after she graduated. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I worked with a guy at one time who was a sex offender. Assuming he told the truth he was at a party w/ drinking age people and met a woman w/ 2 kids of different ages. Had sex with her and found out the next morning she was 14 IIRC. He got the felony conviction and sex offender for life. That's seriously fucked up. I can believe that. We had a girl graduate from High School here with three kids. Her oldest started school the year after she graduated. so she had her first child at 5? |
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I worked with a guy at one time who was a sex offender. Assuming he told the truth he was at a party w/ drinking age people and met a woman w/ 2 kids of different ages. Had sex with her and found out the next morning she was 14 IIRC. He got the felony conviction and sex offender for life. That's seriously fucked up. I can believe that. We had a girl graduate from High School here with three kids. Her oldest started school the year after she graduated. so she had her first child at 5? Math fail. 18-5=13, not 5. |
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At this point I can see no worldly reason for this young man to not hoist the black flag and begin slitting throats.
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At this point I can see no worldly reason for this young man to not hoist the black flag and begin slitting throats. View Quote I can. Seems the worm has turned... |
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"But the judge condemned what he called a culture of "meet, hook-up, have sex, sayonara, totally inappropriate behavior,” according to court documents."
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In Arizona the law expressly and explicitly makes an exception if a reasonable person would have believed the minor was an adult. (Like meeting her in a bar.)
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The State presses charges, especially when a minor is involved. There is no discretion. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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So if the girl and her mother were on his side, then how did the law even get involved in this? But how did this even get out? someone called the police on this. That is the part I am missing in the story |
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I think the guy in this case was screwed by the law, just getting that out of the way. I'm no prude, but I figure you can significantly reduce your chances of getting caught up in this sort of thing by not jumping into bed with strangers at a moment's notice. Part of being an adult is being able to say "no" to gratification every once in a while. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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When you're an adult you have adult responsibilities. One such responsibility is not having sex with children, even if those children want to have sex with you. This is not a difficult concept. How can you be absolutely sure she is not a child? I think cutting her in half to count her rings is illegal. I completely agree. From a philosophical perspective, the judge is right in what he said -- there's just no basis in law for him to sentence based on that. |
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Something like this happened to a friend of mine. I feel very badly for him.
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When you're an adult you have adult responsibilities. One such responsibility is not having sex with children, even if those children want to have sex with you. This is not a difficult concept. Did you know some people misrepresent certain facts about themselves and mislead others in an effort to get what they desire? Yes. They say things like, "What. Ever. I am so totally eighteen," and sometimes they say things like, "I thought she was old enough." Does this girl look 20? https://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p264/sirsqueeboo/littlelupe_zpsvzzacrxd.jpg Did Traci Lords look 15 when she was filming porn and posing for Penthouse? Exactly. A lot of people in this thread have watched child porn. |
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