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Posted: 3/4/2015 9:30:56 PM EDT
I've pretty much been an extreme loner for the last 8 or so years.
I do get tired of it, but have found that I can only stomach a few hours of company before I'm ready to be alone again.
It does suck as I'm missing out on a lot of things in life.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:32:06 PM EDT
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I've pretty much been an extreme loner for the last 8 or so years.
I do get tired of it, but have found that I can only stomach a few hours of company before I'm ready to be alone again.
It does suck as I'm missing out on a lot of things in life.
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get out and socialize.

Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:32:22 PM EDT
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As to your question, yes, I am pretty much alone most of the time.

Have been for awhile. It was difficult at first, but it is what it is..........
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:33:07 PM EDT
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Do you feel it's detrimental to your quality of life?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:34:59 PM EDT
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INTJ.  Solitude is my paradise.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:36:44 PM EDT
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Of course.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:37:30 PM EDT
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Do you feel it's detrimental to your quality of life?

Of course.

why don't you get out?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:37:45 PM EDT
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There's always something or someone that requires my time and attention. That gets pretty old too.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:38:28 PM EDT
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Oh look, another quality nsl thread.



But seriously, get out and socialize. It's no one's fault but your own that you're alone all the time.



 
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:41:52 PM EDT
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I'm a loner for the most part as well.  I have a small circle of friends, mainly centered around guns, and shooting, and this site believe it or not, hell, my best friends I met from this site and some other gun forums.  I don't really go out and do anything, just to work, home, shoot, go to gunshows or go backpacking and camping.

Sometimes I get lonely, but for the most part, I keep myself busy, and it doesn't bother me really.  I hate large crowds, and groups, just not my thing.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:43:33 PM EDT
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That's me.

Sometimes I go out to socialize but in my terms. Usually alone so I can leave if I'm tired of it.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:44:02 PM EDT
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take up reloading and you'll wonder where the time went. Let the ocd grab hold and craft some fine ammo

Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:44:23 PM EDT
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I wish!
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:44:47 PM EDT
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What are you missing out on, besides restaurants?

And sex.

Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:46:05 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:46:12 PM EDT
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Get a wife and kids.  You will cherish a few minutes alone.  
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:46:34 PM EDT
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Not always by choice.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:46:54 PM EDT
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I get as much social interaction here as I do at work.

I like hanging out with my dogs though, so I don't feel that alone.

Lately I've been sticking to myself almost all the time I'm not at work. Haven't even been out shooting, but part of that is because the guy I usually shoot with doesn't have the same off day to go shooting anymore.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:48:21 PM EDT
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Alone? HAHAHAHAAHA!!!!!



I get alone time precisely twice a day for 30 minutes... the drive to and from work.  




I can't complain though, it beats being an anti-social hermit, and dammit, kids are fun!
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:50:01 PM EDT
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They say I'm an asshole, but what they don't grasp is that I sincerely don't care what they think.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:52:15 PM EDT
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I've been a  stay at home dad for the last 12 years, want to switch?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:52:23 PM EDT
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I'm on the opposite end.

I get a 5 hour window of alone time Monday afternoons in the winter when my daughter goes to her grandmas, other than that I am with family, customers, or employees pretty much 24/7

I wouldn't mind a little more of it each week.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:56:26 PM EDT
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why don't you get out?
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Do you feel it's detrimental to your quality of life?

Of course.

why don't you get out?

Not much in common with most people.
Most of my coworkers can't quit talking sports, WOW, or keep their phones put away.
Old friends are about the same.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:57:09 PM EDT
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That is my dream job.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:57:39 PM EDT
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Are you alone, or are you lonely?

There is a difference.

If you're lonely, get off-line and do something.  What do you like to do?  



Link Posted: 3/4/2015 9:58:20 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:02:00 PM EDT
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get out and socialize.

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I've pretty much been an extreme loner for the last 8 or so years.
I do get tired of it, but have found that I can only stomach a few hours of company before I'm ready to be alone again.
It does suck as I'm missing out on a lot of things in life.

get out and socialize.




This. Man is not an island, and is not meant to be alone.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:03:30 PM EDT
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yep...but by choice most of the time. It is hard if I actually *want* to go out and do something though..



Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:04:58 PM EDT
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This. Man is not an island, and is not meant to be alone.
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I've pretty much been an extreme loner for the last 8 or so years.
I do get tired of it, but have found that I can only stomach a few hours of company before I'm ready to be alone again.
It does suck as I'm missing out on a lot of things in life.

get out and socialize.




This. Man is not an island, and is not meant to be alone.


Before I had a wife and kid, money and pussy were the only reasons to leave the house.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:07:25 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:07:39 PM EDT
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And sex.

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Hookers. They leave when you are done so you can go back to peace and quiet.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:08:06 PM EDT
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INTX here
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:09:04 PM EDT
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what's your stats?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:09:17 PM EDT
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Yep I prefere it. The girlfriend gets a few hours here and there.


Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:10:32 PM EDT
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Stop being weird.  You start the weirdest threads.  What's your deal?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:13:50 PM EDT
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In the wise words of Green Day, when masturbation has lost its fun, you're fucking lonely.

So, has it?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:17:17 PM EDT
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Pretty good odds its you.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:17:43 PM EDT
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So you trap beaver in the Bitterroots???
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:17:55 PM EDT
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I have a boy that is almost 2 years old that just learned to open doors....I am never alone.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:19:23 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:20:20 PM EDT
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Hah!

 



Even on the crapper.




I remember my daughter.




Good times...
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:25:48 PM EDT
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My wife will be on a Pharmacy rotation for a month here soon 3 hours away. I am already dreading it.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:26:49 PM EDT
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Last year I lost my wife to cancer, and since then I have been on my own. I am an immigrant to the U.S and do not have any family here.
Pretty much some weeks if it wasn't for the lady I hired to help me keep up with the house, I wouldn't see anyone at all.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:28:07 PM EDT
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Because a Loner has got to be alone.....


























ETA: Jessie?
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:28:23 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:28:39 PM EDT
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I am. I work at home, town is 10 miles away. Kids and wife leave for school/work at 7 am, nobody came home until after 5. It's awesome.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:29:42 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:33:40 PM EDT
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No. I have a good dog.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:39:28 PM EDT
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I'm alone most of the time. I find that I quickly bore of being around other people. I has a few friends, my parents, and the rest of you jack wagons to socialize with.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:39:29 PM EDT
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If I ain't working I'm alone.   'Less its a weekend night, I usually find people to hang out with.
Link Posted: 3/4/2015 10:45:40 PM EDT
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In general I can only tolerate the other humans for about 22-23 days before I find myself getting easily irritated by the little things they do. When this happens I realize that I must head back to the mountains to cleanse my mind of them. Five days is the minimum time I need to recuperate.
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