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Jesus, she looks like shit.
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And Will is still in the East Baton Rouge Jail (since 8-27-14).
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Parish of Livingston officials tell us Kristafor Ford abused Stephanie's son from another relationship last month ... by striking the kid so hard his lower buttocks area was bruised. View Quote And here I thought you were going to say they made them watch the show. |
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Not that this makes your opinion less valid (or mine more valid), but my perspective is that of a father of three. To date, I've never left any marks on backsides. But sometimes kids squirm. If I were to bruise one and someone were to see it, I could very well find myself in the same position as the family in the OP. Sorry to hear about your ex's kid. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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For someone who loves arguing the gray areas, you should draw an uncharacteristically hard line here. Do you have children? No children, but a girl friend had an abused 7 year old. That was a treat. Seen enough as a LEO, EMT, security guard, and dealt with these assholes enough as a jailer to have a firm opinion. Not that this makes your opinion less valid (or mine more valid), but my perspective is that of a father of three. To date, I've never left any marks on backsides. But sometimes kids squirm. If I were to bruise one and someone were to see it, I could very well find myself in the same position as the family in the OP. Sorry to hear about your ex's kid. I don't really think I could be a parent. Much respect for those who get their kids to 18 and a high school diploma!! |
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Give kid spanking and go to jail? I'm so happy to not be a parent. View Quote Me too. Raising kids anywhere near the government or people who lick government boots must be frustrating as hell. I don't condone abuse, but a spanking, when warranted, is not abuse. Problem is everyone has an opinion and is in everyone's business now days. "it's for the children" |
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Quoted: I believe that my elementary school teachers would be in jail if that is the case View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Give kid spanking and go to jail? I'm so happy to not be a parent. Every nun I ever knew would be. Except Sister Mary Pius, she was actually human. |
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If trailer parks were a nation, they woukd be the royal family.
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Like others said, not abuse IMO. I look at my neices and see that "timeouts" just don't work. My brother and I were spanked; wooden spoons, spatulas, hands, etc. and I know I deserved it. My mom would go straight for the dish detergent if I cursed , my mouth was extra clean some days at least. Now a days you can't spank your kids without being demonized but my wife and I run our house, not the kids and not outsiders .
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Quoted: And.. broomstick coffee cup to the head orange matchbox tracks lamp pretty much any object handy (dad married a nurse/horse chick) I'm just glad mom didn't grow cactus. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I got the belt once, And the spatula a few times, And the cookie sheet El Kabong over the head. Mom was pissed And.. broomstick coffee cup to the head orange matchbox tracks lamp pretty much any object handy (dad married a nurse/horse chick) I'm just glad mom didn't grow cactus. |
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View Quote Yep, he's going down hill too. His MIGHT be mugshot ugliness, hers is meth. |
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No, we didn't, and no, it's never acceptable. Fuck child abusers. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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That family is full of surprises. But getting a few bruises from a spanking? I think we all got those as kids. No, we didn't, and no, it's never acceptable. Fuck child abusers. Bullshit, nothing wrong with a little discipline. Child abuse is a whole other issue and this doesn't sound liked that. |
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Jesus, she looks like shit. When was she on Dr Phil, 2 months ago? She looked fine then. It's called makeup. Pretty much, the girl has always had pretty bad acne...you could see it even under the pancake makeup. As to the spanking, I had bruises from school spankings. Those teachers would be in prison these days. |
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Maybe this was just a Hispanic thing http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ycUGE-sfONY/UBnyYb36nBI/AAAAAAAALtY/gdxvQ1dw9ns/s1600/382410_450827958283519_1064553597_n.jpg View Quote Nope, not Hispanic thing. |
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View Quote She's on meth and he's on a donut diet. |
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Mine too. And he was the best Dad anyone could ever want. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Damn my dad would have been in jail all the time. Mine too. And he was the best Dad anyone could ever want. Yep, he's one of my best friends now. I often thought I hated him, now that I'm a dad, I know how wrong I was. |
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And.. broomstick coffee cup to the head orange matchbox tracks lamp pretty much any object handy (dad married a nurse/horse chick) I'm just glad mom didn't grow cactus. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I got the belt once, And the spatula a few times, And the cookie sheet El Kabong over the head. Mom was pissed And.. broomstick coffee cup to the head orange matchbox tracks lamp pretty much any object handy (dad married a nurse/horse chick) I'm just glad mom didn't grow cactus. The orange matchbox tracks were the worst. Holy Shit. My mom was a banshee with those things. Makes my ass hurt just thinking about it. Mom usually used a yard stick and Dad used open hand or if we really fucked up the belt. My brother and I were big for our ages and deserved every spanking we got and more for things we didn't get caught at. Looking back I'm glad my parents kicked my ass when I needed it or I'd be worthless today instead of a productive member of society. |
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Your dad should have beat your ass for that and I am not kidding ..... View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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What's the statute of limitations on getting beat by your parent's? I was beat for my entire childhood until the day I grabbed a hammer and stated I would kill them if they hit me again. The beatings stopped. My Mom stopped when she tried to hit me for saying "damn." I was fourteen so I swatted her hands away. I was bemused that she would try to hit someone bigger and stronger. Your dad should have beat your ass for that and I am not kidding ..... Yeah. I said "damn" at age fourteen. What a hellion. At that age I was done taking any abuse because from people who were frustrated with their lives and had to lash out. If my Dad had been there he might have gotten a worse reaction. |
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Yep, he's one of my best friends now. I often thought I hated him, now that I'm a dad, I know how wrong I was. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Damn my dad would have been in jail all the time. Mine too. And he was the best Dad anyone could ever want. Yep, he's one of my best friends now. I often thought I hated him, now that I'm a dad, I know how wrong I was. Reminds me of one of Mark Twain's great quotes: "When I was a kid, my Dad was so stupid. It is amazing how much he learned by the time I was 30 years old." |
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Yeah. I said "damn" at age fourteen. What a hellion. At that age I was done taking any abuse because from people who were frustrated with their lives and had to lash out. If my Dad had been there he might have gotten a worse reaction. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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What's the statute of limitations on getting beat by your parent's? I was beat for my entire childhood until the day I grabbed a hammer and stated I would kill them if they hit me again. The beatings stopped. My Mom stopped when she tried to hit me for saying "damn." I was fourteen so I swatted her hands away. I was bemused that she would try to hit someone bigger and stronger. Your dad should have beat your ass for that and I am not kidding ..... Yeah. I said "damn" at age fourteen. What a hellion. At that age I was done taking any abuse because from people who were frustrated with their lives and had to lash out. If my Dad had been there he might have gotten a worse reaction. Obviously you don't get it "Damn" is not the issue bowing up to your smaller mother is the issue that you needed immediate negative reinforcement for.. your post proves my point quite well it screams special snowflake with a dash of oh my we got a badadss overhere Was I able to overcome my mother when a teen sure , would I hell NO out of respect primarily and secondary if I dared to try and get physical with my mom my dad would have ensured I never had such a thought again, but I was raised in a loving structured environment where both parents were actively involved in my life. I am sorry you appear to have not gotten much guidance in your younger life and your father was absent Your outlook reminds me of a youth I encountered in a store a few years ago: Kid was about my size I am guessing 12-14 in age , being a general ass in the store his mom asked him to stop and he responded by saying bitch and striking her closed handed in the face, he appeared to be contemplating striking his downed crying mother again when I grabbed his hand and then picked him and "placed" him against a wall and informed him that I didn't give a fuck how he acted in private but in public that behavior was unacceptable. for a brief moment that little fucker had some respect |
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I never got the belt....I got the hand. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Damn my dad would have been in jail all the time. Both my parents would've been. I got the hand until I started laughing about it. Then my mom got a walking stick in the corner. It broke. I laughed more. My dad came home that night and I got the belt for the first time. Holy fuck!!!! That was an attitude changer. I prob got belted 10 or less times as a kid and now at 30 I look back and agree I deserved it when I got it and am thankful my parents kept me walking a straight line. |
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My old man put more then 1 bruise on me & I deserved everyone of them.
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Obviously you don't get it "Damn" is not the issue bowing up to your smaller mother is the issue that you needed immediate negative reinforcement for.. your post proves my point quite well it screams special snowflake with a dash of oh my we got a badadss overhere Was I able to overcome my mother when a teen sure , would I hell NO out of respect primarily and secondary if I dared to try and get physical with my mom my dad would have ensured I never had such a thought again, but I was raised in a loving structured environment where both parents were actively involved in my life. I am sorry you appear to have not gotten much guidance in your younger life and your father was absent Your outlook reminds me of a youth I encountered in a store a few years ago: Kid was about my size I am guessing 12-14 in age , being a general ass in the store his mom asked him to stop and he responded by saying bitch and striking her closed handed in the face, he appeared to be contemplating striking his downed crying mother again when I grabbed his hand and then picked him and "placed" him against a wall and informed him that I didn't give a fuck how he acted in private but in public that behavior was unacceptable. for a brief moment that little fucker had some respect View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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What's the statute of limitations on getting beat by your parent's? I was beat for my entire childhood until the day I grabbed a hammer and stated I would kill them if they hit me again. The beatings stopped. My Mom stopped when she tried to hit me for saying "damn." I was fourteen so I swatted her hands away. I was bemused that she would try to hit someone bigger and stronger. Your dad should have beat your ass for that and I am not kidding ..... Yeah. I said "damn" at age fourteen. What a hellion. At that age I was done taking any abuse because from people who were frustrated with their lives and had to lash out. If my Dad had been there he might have gotten a worse reaction. Obviously you don't get it "Damn" is not the issue bowing up to your smaller mother is the issue that you needed immediate negative reinforcement for.. your post proves my point quite well it screams special snowflake with a dash of oh my we got a badadss overhere Was I able to overcome my mother when a teen sure , would I hell NO out of respect primarily and secondary if I dared to try and get physical with my mom my dad would have ensured I never had such a thought again, but I was raised in a loving structured environment where both parents were actively involved in my life. I am sorry you appear to have not gotten much guidance in your younger life and your father was absent Your outlook reminds me of a youth I encountered in a store a few years ago: Kid was about my size I am guessing 12-14 in age , being a general ass in the store his mom asked him to stop and he responded by saying bitch and striking her closed handed in the face, he appeared to be contemplating striking his downed crying mother again when I grabbed his hand and then picked him and "placed" him against a wall and informed him that I didn't give a fuck how he acted in private but in public that behavior was unacceptable. for a brief moment that little fucker had some respect Wow. That was pretty badass of you. It's amazing you can infer what my childhood was like by a couple short posts. Save your self righteous comments for someone who gives a shit. Knocking someone's hand away is "bowing up?" I don't even know what that means. |
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No children, but a girl friend had an abused 7 year old. That was a treat. Seen enough as a LEO, EMT, security guard, and dealt with these assholes enough as a jailer to have a firm opinion. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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For someone who loves arguing the gray areas, you should draw an uncharacteristically hard line here. Do you have children? No children, but a girl friend had an abused 7 year old. That was a treat. Seen enough as a LEO, EMT, security guard, and dealt with these assholes enough as a jailer to have a firm opinion. You were a LEO? |
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Looking at the booking photo Steph looks like she's been on a meth. http://ll-media.tmz.com/2014/10/24/1024-stephanie-hayden-mug-shot-tmz-2.jpg View Quote No shit. She got the crabby scabbys for sure! |
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I got the belt once, And the spatula a few times, And the cookie sheet El Kabong over the head. Mom was pissed And.. broomstick coffee cup to the head orange matchbox tracks lamp pretty much any object handy (dad married a nurse/horse chick) I'm just glad mom didn't grow cactus. those matchbox track had a heck of a sting to them. moms belt was named "black bertha" when it was "lost" it was replaced by "brown bertha" Its a shame you cant whoop a kid now days when they deserve it. |
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After reading what many of you seem to think is normal discipline and what many have been subjected to, it's no wonder there are so many fucked up people in this country.
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