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What's great is when they are confronted with the call detail that shows 10'ish calls a day and they say they don't know who it is
Ask me how I know
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There are applications for this so you may surreptitiously do this. No need to ask. Be a double knot spy.
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Quoted: The question is do you want to install a GPS tracker, computer key logger, spy programs, interrogate her telephone, snoop through texts and emails. etc, etc. Don't live your life like that brother. You will be the only one suffering in the end. If she doesn't want to be an open book, and acts sketchy about your inquiries, then just cut her loose. View Quote |
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new relationship (5 weeks).
I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. |
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Get her panties. There are DNA testing labs that will identify all the DNA in a test sample.
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Mouse Boy just fuck the shit out of her for a few weeks and move on.
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new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. View Quote Just over a month and you're gonna demand phone records? That's not creepy at all. |
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Before you go through all of that, have you guys even discussed your relationship expectations? If no, then you don't really have a right.
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new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. View Quote Let me guess, she is living with you? |
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Dude....run. "I love you in one week"? Really?
In addition, if you have a gut feeling so soon into the relationship, it's a red flag. Find one that you don't have to worry about that gut feeling. |
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no Let me guess, she is living with you? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. no Let me guess, she is living with you? NADA = NO |
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? View Quote Fuck that noise. If I suspected she'd be gone. |
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Fuck that noise. If I suspected she'd be gone. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? Fuck that noise. If I suspected she'd be gone. transparency is a bitch |
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Hmmm. Has she ever been married? For me personally, I'd want to know pretty quickly if I was being played the fool (if we had set expectations early on). But 5 weeks is a little early to be bugging her phone . I'd probably ask her about it and if she didn't answer me convincingly with what I wanted to hear, I'd probably eject. The other part to this is the fact that she is a traveling sales rep. That alone would make for a hard trust situation for a lot of dudes. Especially if you are familiar with the drinking / partying that goes on often in those roles. At the end of the day she either needs to "sell you" on the confort level you need. And if she doesn't, eject. But you already know this....
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Hmmm. Has she ever been married? For me personally, I'd want to know pretty quickly if I was being played the fool (if we had set expectations early on). But 5 weeks is a little early to be bugging her phone . I'd probably ask her about it and if she didn't answer me convincingly with what I wanted to hear, I'd probably eject. The other part to this is the fact that she is a traveling sales rep. That alone would make for a hard trust situation for a lot of dudes. Especially if you are familiar with the drinking / partying that goes on often in those roles. At the end of the day she either needs to "sell you" on the confort level you need. And if she doesn't, eject. But you already know this.... View Quote just ended the 2nd marriage in late August. |
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new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. View Quote She's banging dudes on her trips. It happens a lot and if it's happening at 5 weeks you need to bounce her ass to the curb now. |
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just ended the 2nd marriage in late August. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Hmmm. Has she ever been married? For me personally, I'd want to know pretty quickly if I was being played the fool (if we had set expectations early on). But 5 weeks is a little early to be bugging her phone . I'd probably ask her about it and if she didn't answer me convincingly with what I wanted to hear, I'd probably eject. The other part to this is the fact that she is a traveling sales rep. That alone would make for a hard trust situation for a lot of dudes. Especially if you are familiar with the drinking / partying that goes on often in those roles. At the end of the day she either needs to "sell you" on the confort level you need. And if she doesn't, eject. But you already know this.... just ended the 2nd marriage in late August. Treat her as a friend with benefits, nothing more. |
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship".
If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. |
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new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. View Quote Now MouseBoy, I'm sure you are a nice guy and all that stuff. But you state your SO is a pharmaceutical Rep. Without saying too much about myself, I had 25 years of dealing with pharmacy Reps. I never meet a single one that did not step out ( so to speak ) . Especially when on the road. And the women as bad as the men. So the chances are high that she is playing the field. Hell, it helps with sales. gd |
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. View Quote I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. |
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log into my verizon account (with her phone on the account) and look it all up without her knowing.
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I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. |
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your answers lay here. dont do it unless your ready for the pain. https://mobile-tracker-free.com/ scary powerfull for a free product. if you hit install .. accpet that your marriage has already failed. if you listen/view the records you have only yourself to blame for the pain that WILL come. i say again .. scary powerfull for a free product. if you hit install .. accpet that your marriage has already failed. View Quote work with Iphone? |
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Erm, what exactly are we talking about here? Also, what's with your avatar? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? My Wife and I have a great relationship but.....We're both grown-up enough to know that "shit Happens" (lol!) and as long as we end-up in bed together at the end of the day(?) It's all good Erm, what exactly are we talking about here? Also, what's with your avatar? Goatboy, Mouseboy....its a 90s thing newb |
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If I were a man and suspected my SO of infidelity, I would get on the internet and ask a bunch of strangers what I should do.
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Wife? Go look at bill. Girlfriend? if it bothers you that bad breakup.
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I caught my ex-wife cheating on me and the thing I learned early is that once you start suspecting the relationship is over.
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If you are a sane, level-headed man in a happy relationship - and something is off, and your gut is telling you it's off.. then you are probably right. But if you tend to be emotional and jealous, then that might just be on you. I just want to be your wiener dog I'll let you two fight it out. Hmmm... Any man who beat that dog in a fight wouldn't be a good man. Any man who wouldn't let that dog win a fight wouldn't be a good man. No win scenario. |
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Don't ask anything. You have to decide to either walk away or go along pretending nothing is going on. There is no middle ground. Once you bust her the relationship is over. FYI most women flirt with idea of cheating for a long time before actually doing the deed.
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I wouldn't be with her if I had any suspicion of it.
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Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. Couldn't agree more there. |
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If I suspected, I'd find out and I wouldn't need one specific piece of evidence to find it out.
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Install keylogger on her computer, install gps tracker on her car, install an SMS sniffer (which will allow me to view all texts sent and received), et cetera. And most importantly, I'd start a thread in gd.
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