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Posted: 5/11/2013 9:57:04 PM EDT
Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  



Link Posted: 5/11/2013 9:58:24 PM EDT
[#1]
Well, damn.  Sorry to hear that, OP.

Pics?
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 9:58:41 PM EDT
[#2]
Yet another anecdote to reaffirm my belief I should never get married.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 9:59:06 PM EDT
[#3]
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Well, damn.  Sorry to hear that, OP.

Pics?


Me too        I LOVE that damn dog    
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 9:59:33 PM EDT
[#4]
might just be better off. Be happy you didn't have kids.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 9:59:34 PM EDT
[#5]
There's a song in there somewhere.

Good luck bro.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:00:24 PM EDT
[#6]
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might just be better off. Be happy you didn't have kids.


Not with her, but it will be hard on the stepkids {Hers and My boys}
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:00:36 PM EDT
[#7]
Seems like a typical split-up. Woman thinks whatever she gets out of the house is hers and whatever is left....well, she allowed you to keep it. Whatever, toss back a few beers and start life a new.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:01:55 PM EDT
[#8]
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Seems like a typical split-up. Woman thinks whatever she gets out of the house is hers and whatever is left....well, she allowed you to keep it. Whatever, toss back a few beers and start life a new.


She can have the other shit.....I WILL get MY bed back {I had it before we said "I do"}

And my dog!!!   Screw that!!
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:02:20 PM EDT
[#9]
Quoted:
Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Damn dude, sorry to hear that. I see you're in GA, if you're around Atlanta I'll take you shooting, buy you a beer and help you get your house cleaned up if you need it.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:02:22 PM EDT
[#10]
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Well, damn.  Sorry to hear that, OP.

Pics?


Me too        I LOVE that damn dog    


I offer canine repossession services.  I work for cheap.

Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:04:33 PM EDT
[#11]
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Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Damn dude, sorry to hear that. I see you're in GA, if you're around Atlanta I'll take you shooting, buy you a beer and help you get your house cleaned up if you need it.


Mighty Kind of you bro        Not a big deal on the cleaning, will hit it tomorrow........Might take ya up on blasting some targets sometime.  
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:05:43 PM EDT
[#12]
My condolences.  A porn machine (laptop) is insignificant compared to the loss of the best friend in the house (dog).
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:06:51 PM EDT
[#13]
I heard of a divorce where the wife fought for custody of the Husband's dog.   He'd had the dog longer than the marriage.  She won.  Then put it to sleep and sent him the paid vet bills for euthanasia.



I don't understand how she's still alive.




Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:07:14 PM EDT
[#14]
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Well, damn.  Sorry to hear that, OP.

Pics?


Me too        I LOVE that damn dog    


I offer canine repossession services.  I work for cheap.



The ONLY deal with the dogs are....we have 2 Akita's......Male & Female....they are like little lovers, one cannot be without the other  
I don't want to be a dick and separate the 2  

Might have to hit the local shelter and save me a mutt from doggie jail....Just don't feel "right" without a dog loving on ya when you walk into the house....ya know?
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:07:54 PM EDT
[#15]
Well, on the bright side, you could base your first big hit on the experience.  It's got all the elements, just gotta find a rhyme for Temper-Pedic.    
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:10:36 PM EDT
[#16]
Out of the blue my friend's wife wanted a divorce, he wanted to make it work... she basically started doing drugs and sleeping with everybody including his best friend. So he conceded defeat and told her he wanted the house. She agreed and gave him a price... so he told her he was going away for the weekend and she had 2 days to remove whatever she wanted from the house.... he told her to make sure she got everything she wanted because once he gave her the buy out money she was never stepping foot in the house again. He said he told her he didn't care if she left him a milk crate to sit on and a bowl and spoon to eat with....

When he returned two days later there was a milk crate in the living room with a bowl and spoon sitting on the kitchen counter.... everything else in the house was gone, minus his clothes....

He's doing just fine now, took him a couple years but he has full custody of his girls and his Ex turned into a drug abusing hooker, and lives in Arkansas or something....

Hang in there OP

- Clint
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:10:44 PM EDT
[#17]
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I heard of a divorce where the wife fought for custody of the Husband's dog.   He'd had the dog longer than the marriage.  She won.  Then put it to sleep and sent him the paid vet bills for euthanasia.

I don't understand how she's still alive.



That amount of evil needs to be put down! And not painlessly!

And what kind of judge gives custody to someone who was not the original owner of the dog?!
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:10:49 PM EDT
[#18]
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Well, damn.  Sorry to hear that, OP.

Pics?


Me too        I LOVE that damn dog    


I offer canine repossession services.  I work for cheap.



The ONLY deal with the dogs are....we have 2 Akita's......Male & Female....they are like little lovers, one cannot be without the other  
I don't want to be a dick and separate the 2  

Might have to hit the local shelter and save me a mutt from doggie jail....Just don't feel "right" without a dog loving on ya when you walk into the house....ya know?


Sorry, I don't do Akitas.  They scare the shit outta me.

On a serious note; sorry about your situation.  Sucks.

......and yeah, I know.  I miss my dog, too.  I let the ex-GF keep her, but I know she was more attached than I was, so I didn't mind.

Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:10:59 PM EDT
[#19]
She didn't move all that shit out by herself!!   Watch out for the new boyfriend.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:11:05 PM EDT
[#20]
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Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Damn dude, sorry to hear that. I see you're in GA, if you're around Atlanta I'll take you shooting, buy you a beer and help you get your house cleaned up if you need it.


Mighty Kind of you bro        Not a big deal on the cleaning, will hit it tomorrow........Might take ya up on blasting some targets sometime.  


No problem bud, my friend has a bunch of land near Athens we go shooting/camping at often; I'd be more than happy to bring an arfcommer down there sometime.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:12:03 PM EDT
[#21]
Ok you guys post tons of topics on dating sites......gimme some FREE ones, I need to get it out of my system and stick it in a few crazy's    
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:12:57 PM EDT
[#22]
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Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Damn dude, sorry to hear that. I see you're in GA, if you're around Atlanta I'll take you shooting, buy you a beer and help you get your house cleaned up if you need it.


Mighty Kind of you bro        Not a big deal on the cleaning, will hit it tomorrow........Might take ya up on blasting some targets sometime.  


No problem bud, my friend has a bunch of land near Athens we go shooting/camping at often; I'd be more than happy to bring an arfcommer down there sometime.


Damn...I am in Conyers, but working in Athens....Wiring up the Dicks sporting goods on the oconee Connector
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:18:22 PM EDT
[#23]
the arfcom curse...sorry to hear that dude.

John Waite - Missing You
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:18:28 PM EDT
[#24]
Get in touch with a lawyer, brother.  It doesn't matter what she took or where she took it until the judge has his/her say in the matter.  I got back things my ex took because they were MINE to start with.  Georgia is a pretty decent state to get divorced in (usually); however, we didn't have kids, so I don't know how kids might effect things if y'all have them.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:21:07 PM EDT
[#25]
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Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Damn dude, sorry to hear that. I see you're in GA, if you're around Atlanta I'll take you shooting, buy you a beer and help you get your house cleaned up if you need it.


Mighty Kind of you bro        Not a big deal on the cleaning, will hit it tomorrow........Might take ya up on blasting some targets sometime.  


No problem bud, my friend has a bunch of land near Athens we go shooting/camping at often; I'd be more than happy to bring an arfcommer down there sometime.


Damn...I am in Conyers, but working in Athens....Wiring up the Dicks sporting goods on the oconee Connector


cool man, my friend has about 120 acres out there (close to lexington, which is down 78 from athens). We go every few weeks; we can definitely set somethin up soon! My friend just bought some more tannerite Lots of hogs down there too
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:21:42 PM EDT
[#26]



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I heard of a divorce where the wife fought for custody of the Husband's dog.   He'd had the dog longer than the marriage.  She won.  Then put it to sleep and sent him the paid vet bills for euthanasia.



I don't understand how she's still alive.





Serious?



Can't say in a public forum what I'd do...but yeah.



 
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:22:14 PM EDT
[#27]
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Seems like a typical split-up. Woman thinks whatever she gets out of the house is hers and whatever is left....well, she allowed you to keep it. Whatever, toss back a few beers and start life a new.


She can have the other shit.....I WILL get MY bed back {I had it before we said "I do"}

And my dog!!!   Screw that!!


Good luck OP.  My ex tried the same thing with my bed (non temperpedic), but I still had the receipt that proved I bought it  before the marriage.  But in her mind once we got married everything of mine became community property, yet somehow the stuff she bought after we got married was just hers.  She even tried to pen her name in on the title for my truck that was paid off a full 3 year  before we married. DMV did this and gave me a new title.
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:33:48 PM EDT
[#28]
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Yet another anecdote to reaffirm my belief I should never get married.


+1
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:46:38 PM EDT
[#29]
Quoted:
I heard of a divorce where the wife fought for custody of the Husband's dog.   He'd had the dog longer than the marriage.  She won.  Then put it to sleep and sent him the paid vet bills for euthanasia.

I don't understand how she's still alive.



fucking just

it doesnt get any more evil than that, no matter what the guy couldve done
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:51:04 PM EDT
[#30]
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Ok you guys post tons of topics on dating sites......gimme some FREE ones, I need to get it out of my system and stick it in a few crazy's    


ARFcom loves PoF.
Or Craigslist.

Also lookup the number for the low cost sex health clinic while you are surfing them.  You will need it.  
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:53:17 PM EDT
[#31]
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Ok you guys post tons of topics on dating sites......gimme some FREE ones, I need to get it out of my system and stick it in a few crazy's    


Then go to the bar at 1:45 am and take home the one crawling on the floor
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 10:58:00 PM EDT
[#32]
Thank God Idaho is one of only 9 community property states...I only lost half of everything I owned!
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 11:02:37 PM EDT
[#33]
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Well, on the bright side, you could base your first big hit on the experience.  It's got all the elements, just gotta find a rhyme for Temper-Pedic.    


"She took the appliances, my dog and the Tempur-Pedic...

She kept that pussy, but fuck that bitch, cause I dont need it"
Link Posted: 5/11/2013 11:12:06 PM EDT
[#34]
That Taylor Swift chick ought to have an opening


You should give it a look see.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 7:20:59 AM EDT
[#35]
Quoted:
Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Kick down her door with a shotgun in hand and take your dog back like a man! That'll show her.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 7:26:47 AM EDT
[#36]
I don't want to be "that" guy...

But pics?!?
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 7:50:35 AM EDT
[#37]
Have you counted your guns?
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 7:56:59 AM EDT
[#38]
Lawyer up.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:03:50 AM EDT
[#39]
When I was talking to my divorce lawyer I told her the ex can have anything but my dog.



The lawyer loooked at me like this.



I said no I am serious.



I did have a prenup though.



Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:05:34 AM EDT
[#40]
Small price to pay for being free?
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:05:35 AM EDT
[#41]


Your Fo Dog got up and fent?
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:06:35 AM EDT
[#42]
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There's a song in there somewhere.

Good luck bro.


"Yeah, now when she took my Cadillac, that didn't bother me a bit. When she took that bluetick hound, she shoulda never done that shit!"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDbKvJynDRA


Konger
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:08:00 AM EDT
[#43]
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Then go to the bar at 1:45 am and take home the one crawling on the floor



Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:08:11 AM EDT
[#44]
Head on down to the panhandle OP

I'll take ya fishing. I'm in the middle of one too.  I expect a response to my umpteenth offer next week.

Should be interesting.

Sorry to hear about the dag.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:08:36 AM EDT
[#45]
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I heard of a divorce where the wife fought for custody of the Husband's dog.   He'd had the dog longer than the marriage.  She won.  Then put it to sleep and sent him the paid vet bills for euthanasia.

I don't understand how she's still alive.



Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:11:48 AM EDT
[#46]
Forget the bed.  Forget the rest of the shit she took.  Write it off.  And yes...  forget the dog.

Get your divorce finalized as fast as possible, with the least amount of bullshit drama as possible, and move on with your life.

You can buy more shit later and you can get a new dog.

Living well is the best revenge.


Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:12:34 AM EDT
[#47]
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Typical story, this is the 2nd go at trying to save it after marriage counseling.
Just got home after all day affair with my cover band playing a private party.

She left me the 50" flat-screen , my laptop . a few end tables.
And my Recliner


House is TRASHED!!
She TOOK, MY freakin temper-pedic King bed
Almost ALL the furniture, kitchen stuff
And MY DAMN dog!!!!!  





Kick down her door with a shotgun in hand and take your dog back like a man! That'll show her.


Make sure that shotgun is Biden approved.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:13:09 AM EDT
[#48]
Since you were away on a gig, perhaps she took it to take care of it until you returned.

You might try that, tell her you appreciate her thoughtfulness and that you'll be over to get Spot.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:15:46 AM EDT
[#49]
And the hits just keep on coming.  With the legal system as it is, and divorce so abundantly in favor of the female I can just see no idea how any rational man can find ans solace and comfort in marriage.  If you are not entitled to the final product of your own ambition and labor, and there is the expectation that what you create can be taken from you by the court systems for any particular reason than it is clear that what you worked for was never really yours.  This sounds a lot like serfdom to me, and I will not participate.

I just don't get it.  Maybe I'm simply too much an individualist.
Link Posted: 5/12/2013 8:15:47 AM EDT
[#50]
At teh end of Jan I came home from work to a half empty house, no kids, no dog.





She left the cat.
Now she has has months to brainwash my 2 into saying horrible things about me to keep my kids away from me



Been getting to know the local cops real well, they seem to be by here every couple of weeks for some other crazy shit she comes up with.




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