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Posted: 11/13/2012 11:51:45 AM EDT

[#1]

I know that I have really fucked up when she addresses me as "dude"

Posted: 11/13/2012 11:52:51 AM EDT

[#2]

I've called him Doodle-brain. Does that count?

Posted: 11/13/2012 11:55:36 AM EDT

[#3]

Quoted:
I've called him Doodle-brain. Does that count?

nope.

Posted: 11/13/2012 11:56:51 AM EDT

[#4]

Quoted:

I don't.

Shit man, I call her dude sometimes.

Came to post this.
My lady is rad.

Posted: 11/13/2012 11:59:35 AM EDT

[#5]

You used to call me pumpkin now I'm Halloween

Remember when I used to your jellybean

You used to call me schnookums and shit like that

Now you're after me with a baseball bat

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:03:19 PM EDT

[#6]

Quoted:
People get upset over things like this?

THIS

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:05:03 PM EDT

[#7]

Neither has ever done this, but I wouldn't think much of it, one way or another.

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:12:22 PM EDT

[#8]

nvmnd

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:17:17 PM EDT

[#9]

She doesn't call me "Dude".

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:22:08 PM EDT

[#10]

Quoted:

Quoted:
How do you react?

I get pissed off. I made it clear to my gf that she wasn't supposed to do it when we were together. We broke up a couple months ago and when she texts me she says dude. I've counted in 4 or 5 times and I know she does it because she knows how much that word makes me mad. I would probably do the same thing though if I knew she hated a word.

i think it's insulting. i don't say "yo" or "dude" to her so i expect the same in return.

Start calling her "shorty" when she calls you dude.

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:22:30 PM EDT

[#11]

What if she's not into the whole brevity thing?

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:25:23 PM EDT

[#12]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I do not care if someone calls me dude...except my wife for some reason (that I am too stupid to figure out) but when I brought it up she said "ok" and has not done it since...

she is so awesome...

it really bugs the shit out of me.

Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:33:33 PM EDT

[#13]

My wife does not call me dude. Yours does!

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:34:36 PM EDT

[#14]

I wish mine would call me dude, asshole is getting old.

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:35:30 PM EDT

[#15]

Quoted:
My wife does not call me dude. Yours does!

You must be that dude she vomited on at Mardi Gras.

We're both thankful you took it so well. Southerners are so polite.

Posted: 11/13/2012 12:57:12 PM EDT

[#16]

Quoted:

Quoted:
How do you react?

I get pissed off. I made it clear to my gf that she wasn't supposed to do it when we were together. We broke up a couple months ago and when she texts me she says dude. I've counted in 4 or 5 times and I know she does it because she knows how much that word makes me mad. I would probably do the same thing though if I knew she hated a word.

Try cunt.

As in "Cunt, shut your cock holster."

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:06:48 PM EDT

[#17]

I dont. Everyone in the house says it almost daily.

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:08:02 PM EDT

[#18]

don't really care.

"dude", "man" whatevs

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:11:32 PM EDT

[#19]

I can't ever recall it happening, but I would not care.

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:12:31 PM EDT

[#20]

Call her "chick".

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:22:09 PM EDT

[#21]

Some of my 5 employees call me that and I am OK because I try to run a very laid back shop to keep moral high and production flowing.. If my wife called me that I would be so fucking pissed I wouldn't talk to her for a month. It isn't her place, and I don't speak to her like that either.

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:30:59 PM EDT

[#22]

Depending on the situation or conversation, we call each other dude.

BFD, no reaction necessary.

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:52:41 PM EDT

[#23]

This thread has been highly informative. Many puzzle pieces just clicked into place.

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:57:08 PM EDT

[#24]

I'm laughing over here thinking of the backwoods-ass posters who go flying off the handle if their wife calls them dude.

"ERREAGHGHGBLE YOU WILL RESPECT MAH AUTHORITAH!!!!"

Posted: 11/13/2012 1:58:15 PM EDT

[#25]

It would not bother me. I call her all kinds of things.

Posted: 11/13/2012 2:02:20 PM EDT

[#26]

I dont care what she calls me as long as she doesnt call me late for dinner.
If my life was so simple that the word "Dude" bothered me, I'd be one happy dude.

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:33:04 PM EDT

[#27]

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:35:09 PM EDT

[#28]

In Jeff Spicolli voice ?? Ok

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:39:27 PM EDT

[#29]

Quoted:
Some of my 5 employees call me that and I am OK because I try to run a very laid back shop to keep moral high and production flowing.. If my wife called me that I would be so fucking pissed I wouldn't talk to her for a month. It isn't her place, and I don't speak to her like that either.

Laid back, huh? Ok, if you say so. Dude.

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:39:58 PM EDT

[#30]

my 4yo girl call me that/... "what are you doing dude!".......

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:40:45 PM EDT

[#31]

Total disrespect is what it is. Unfortunately in these times, setting the little woman straight get's your
ass hauled off to jail.

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:47:29 PM EDT

[#32]

It means she has been watching nutnfancy videos behind your back.

Posted: 11/13/2012 5:57:15 PM EDT

[#33]

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:13:15 PM EDT

[#34]

Quoted:

Total disrespect is what it is. Unfortunately in these times, setting the little woman straight get's your

ass hauled off to jail.

It's a sad day when you can't beat the woman you allegedly love for using the d-word

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:47:29 PM EDT

[#35]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I don't.

Shit man, I call her dude sometimes.

Came to post this.

My lady is rad.

yup , one day ill have my own throne like some of these fellows to which my spouse will bestow upon me my full catholic name when she requests my attention.

until then she can call me, dude, babe, shithead, whatever works, she gets it all in return.

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:48:34 PM EDT

[#36]

Wife called me dude once...I stared as she smiled. I was lost in cuteness.

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:50:43 PM EDT

[#37]

Doesn't bother me.

Beats being called asshole.

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:52:43 PM EDT

[#38]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I don't.

Shit man, I call her dude sometimes.

Came to post this.

My lady is rad.

yup , one day ill have my own throne like some of these fellows to which my spouse will bestow upon me my full catholic name when she requests my attention.

until then she can call me, dude, babe, shithead, whatever works, she gets it all in return.

When I tried "Honeytits" and got barely a glare, I knew I needed to put a ring on that.

You call her Goldilocks and it's motherfucking on though.

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:54:16 PM EDT

[#39]

Quoted:

I don't.

Shit man, I call her dude sometimes.

All the time. I call everyone dude. And bro. And broham. And broheim. And brosephus. Well, you get the idea.

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:54:36 PM EDT

[#40]

Quoted:
I don't.

Shit man, I call her dude sometimes.

Yup, is this supposed to be an issue?

Posted: 11/13/2012 6:55:31 PM EDT

[#41]

Quoted:
How do you react?

Make me a sammich (Pause)... Just kidding.. Just kidding.

But really.

Posted: 11/13/2012 7:03:06 PM EDT

[#42]

All the time. I call everyone dude. And bro. And broham. And broheim. And brosephus. Well, you get the idea.

add "roman brolanski to the repetoire and your golden.

Posted: 11/13/2012 7:21:15 PM EDT

[#43]

Slowly I turn...

Posted: 11/13/2012 7:27:05 PM EDT

[#44]

Generally I'm pretty nice about it if she says something like that. I simply say "How dare you speak in my presence out of turn. You will only speak when spoken to."

Quoted:
People get upset over things like this?

Really, this.

Posted: 11/13/2012 7:30:07 PM EDT

[#45]

Quoted:
If she calls you dude you must piss on her to re-assert dominance.

WIN

Posted: 11/13/2012 7:36:10 PM EDT

[#46]

My 2 year old told me that "daddy is a cool dude". I thought it was cute as hell.

My wife and I both grew up on the west coast, so dude isn't terribly uncommon around the house.