We have a situation here at the house with my female, Grace. Gracie came to us with some problems - she has very mild pectus excavatum, an overactive anal-gland issue, and she has a somewhat inverted vulva. Our vet suggested that we let her go through a heat cycle because that can sometimes help the problem with her vulva. She's 10 months old now, and went into heat about a week ago.
Enter our boy Ben. Ben is about a year old, and he is also intact. We haven't gotten Ben fixed because of what happened with his sister, Elli. We originally got Ben and Elli at the same time. We took them in for spay/neuter at about 5 and a half months and Elli went into cardiac arrest and died from the anesthesia. Since they were littermates, we are very reluctant to have him put under anesthesia and having something happen to him.
We had done a very good job keeping Ben and Gracie apart, and keeping panties on Gracie when we're all awake/together. I'm sure you've worked out where this is going... Yesterday, while my wife and I was asleep (I work nights and fell asleep) they managed to get together and get her panties off and then get together. My wife came home to find them locked together in that way.
I've been reading that it's possible to have a female spayed while they're in heat. I called the vet today to see if it would be possible to bring Gracie in and have her spayed before fertilization has taken place (her discharge is still fairly 'bloody', which if what I've read is correct indicates that she probably hasn't ovulated yet?). The vet is recommending waiting three weeks. If it's possible to have her spayed now, we'd rather do that than wait and have 6, 8, 10 unborn puppies aborted.
Anyway, looking for some advice on different ways to proceed.
By the way - yes, we both feel like idiots.
Thanks in advance for any guidance.