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[#1]
Mark I'll get you something this weekend. I'll have to find the box with puppy photos, got her pre digital camera.
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[#2]
I'll get something to you in the next few days. Molly and Elli would probably enjoy driving someone crazy until I get there.
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[#3]
Thanks guys.
Buckeye,did you see Elli in the finished drawing? |
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[#5]
Elli was a mountain cur? Domino my first Semper Fi rescue was a mountain cur. Smartest dog I've seen.
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If you need more pet memories, you might try posting at http://www.petlossmessageboard.com/?forum=62448
There are some really caring people on that site. |
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[#8]
Name: Bruiser
Nick Name: Bruise Gender: Male Breed: mix - collie/GSD/retriever Owners: Nathan Where They Came From: stray They Lived In: small town/rural setting Favorite Treat: cheese - any time you opened a Kraft singles wrapper, he would come running from where ever he was. Favorite Trick: too smart for tricks Favorite Activity: carrying a walking stick in his mouth on a walk Dislikes: UPS drivers Where Did They Sleep?: basement. When it was time for bed, he would go to the basement. It was a great place for him to sleep. It was warm in winter (wood stove) and cool in the summer (some of the basement was still dirt). Mischief: He would chew one shoe of a pair of shoes when he was mad he was left alone at home Funny Thing They Did: Nothing particularly funny, but he was amazingly smart. His had a huge understandable vocabulary. He could tell his female dog friend was coming towards the house when she was still out of sight and over 1000 yards away. (This still amazes me 25 years later). My Animal is Special Because: He was my first dog. He was my childhood friend. |
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Thank you. I'll need a couple/few pics as well.
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Name: Bruiser Nick Name: Bruise Gender: Male Breed: mix - collie/GSD/retriever Owners: Nathan Where They Came From: stray They Lived In: small town/rural setting Favorite Treat: cheese - any time you opened a Kraft singles wrapper, he would come running from where ever he was. Favorite Trick: too smart for tricks Favorite Activity: carrying a walking stick in his mouth on a walk Dislikes: UPS drivers Where Did They Sleep?: basement. When it was time for bed, he would go to the basement. It was a great place for him to sleep. It was warm in winter (wood stove) and cool in the summer (some of the basement was still dirt). Mischief: He would chew one shoe of a pair of shoes when he was mad he was left alone at home Funny Thing They Did: Nothing particularly funny, but he was amazingly smart. His had a huge understandable vocabulary. He could tell his female dog friend was coming towards the house when she was still out of sight and over 1000 yards away. (This still amazes me 25 years later). My Animal is Special Because: He was my first dog. He was my childhood friend. View Quote |
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Name: Bruiser Nick Name: Bruise Gender: Male Breed: mix - collie/GSD/retriever Owners: Nathan Where They Came From: stray They Lived In: small town/rural setting Favorite Treat: cheese - any time you opened a Kraft singles wrapper, he would come running from where ever he was. Favorite Trick: too smart for tricks Favorite Activity: carrying a walking stick in his mouth on a walk Dislikes: UPS drivers Where Did They Sleep?: basement. When it was time for bed, he would go to the basement. It was a great place for him to sleep. It was warm in winter (wood stove) and cool in the summer (some of the basement was still dirt). Mischief: He would chew one shoe of a pair of shoes when he was mad he was left alone at home Funny Thing They Did: Nothing particularly funny, but he was amazingly smart. His had a huge understandable vocabulary. He could tell his female dog friend was coming towards the house when she was still out of sight and over 1000 yards away. (This still amazes me 25 years later). My Animal is Special Because: He was my first dog. He was my childhood friend. That will take a while. The photos are in photo albums at my parents house. I'm not sure when I'll be back there. |
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[#12]
No hurry. This is an ongoing project. I need them for the format and to "sell" your dog to the kids.
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[#13]
Name: Charming Molly
Nick Name: Molly Gender: Female Breed: Original Mountain Cur Owners: Larry Where They Came From: Cincinnati, Ohio They Lived In: Cincinnati, Ohio Favorite Treat: Carrots (yes, really - she would go nuts for carrots :) ) Favorite Trick: On command she would shake hands with her left paw or her right paw - whichever one you asked for "Molly, left paw" or "Molly, right paw". Favorite Activity: Barking at and/or chasing squirrels Dislikes: Thunderstorms. Molly was very scared of thunder - she would crawl under the bed or jump in the bath tub. No amount of consoling her would help. Where Did They Sleep?: Molly slept in bed with me. Mischief: Molly loved to get into the trash! She could demolish the contents of a trash can like no other dog I've ever known. Funny Thing They Did: I think the funniest thing she did was tear up and devour the entire contents of a box of Twinkies. I came home to find her in the living room surrounded by tiny shards of the box, empty Twinkie wrappers and Twinkie crumbs. They were EVERYWHERE. I was so angry at her (she'd snatched the box off of the kitchen counter). I said, "MOLLY! What did YOU DO!?" She ran and jumped into her chair and turned around and laid down - her front paws hanging over the edge of the chair. Stuck to each of her front paws was an empty Twinkie wrapper. I went from being angry with her to laughing hysterically. The guilty look on her face, combined with the wrappers stuck to her paws was too funny. My Animal is Special Because: Molly was a sweet, gentle dog. She was a great friend. I think she had just about the most personality of any dog I've ever known, with the possible exception of Elli. You could just tell exactly what she was thinking simply by the expression on her face. Molly was also loyal and brave - she once chased off a would-be burglar that got into our side door one afternoon. You can read more about her in this thread: http://www.ar15.com/archive/topic.html?b=1&f=5&t=897104 Pics! |
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Name: Salient Elli
Nick Name: Elli Gender: Female Breed: Original Mountain Cur Owners: Larry and Bonnie Where They Came From: West Virginia They Lived In: Dayton, Ohio Favorite Treat: Milk Bone Dog Biscuits Favorite Trick: Climbing and Jumping Favorite Activity: Playing with Ben (her brother) - they would chase each other through the yard and into the bushes. She also loved trying to jump up into the tree in the back yard. By the time she was 5 months old, she was able to jump probably 5'-6' into the air. She had just started taking a real interest in squirrels about the time we lost her (at 5 1/2 months). Dislikes: I don't know that she had any, really. Where Did They Sleep?: Elli and Ben had their own little dog beds that they slept on. Mischief: She and Ben liked to dig in the yard (Ben still does ) Funny Thing They Did: Elli and Ben would both grab onto a stick (they loved playing with sticks) and would carry them around together in tandem. It was so funny and so cute. My Animal is Special Because: Elli was on her way to becoming the most epic dog I've ever owned. She was absolutely beautiful. She was perfectly proportioned, had double dew claws (a rare, but highly sought after feature in the breed - it looked like she had 6 toes on her back feet), and the prettiest ticking on her legs. She was also the smartest and most agile dog I've ever been owned. It didn't take her any time at all to learn new commands or tricks, and she would look at new toys, or puzzles and you could see her "wheels" turning as she analyzed it trying to work it out. She was so agile - she could turn on a dime, she could climb up fallen logs (walk on them like a tight-rope, sometimes 7'-8' high into the air), she could jump obstacles like they were nothing. She kept trying and trying to jump up into the notch of the tree in our back yard. She could almost do it by the time she was 5 months old. I describe her like this to people; Elli was like that kid in your school who was the class valedictorian, the captain of the cheerleading squad, a star varsity athlete in every sport she played, and homecoming queen all rolled into one. That one kid who is the star of everything she ever tries to do - the kid that you just want to hate because she's so good at everything... but you can't hate her because she is the nicest, sweetest person you've ever met. My wife and I still cry over her sometimes. |
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Thank you. I'm very aware of how difficult it can be to relive your experiences with a deceased pet. I hope this process helps. Knowing that your animal can still help a child is a very awesome thing. Maybe with time knowing that will lesson the pain.
Thanks to everyone that decided to participate. Your generosity moves me. -Mark aka Joker1 |
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[#18]
I thought about it but I only have one pic of her. They were all taken pre digital camera and I lost a bunch of pictures in moves over the years.
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I thought about it but I only have one pic of her. They were all taken pre digital camera and I lost a bunch of pictures in moves over the years. Big tawny dog with you in front of a pickup? Don't know why I remember shit like that. That was her. Best dog ever. |
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Thank you. Got 'em. Can you clarify under "mischief" how she would punish herself? I want to get the stories right!
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Thank you. Got 'em. Can you clarify under "mischief" how she would punish herself? I want to get the stories right! View Quote Fixed it. I truly hope this helps and makes the grieving process a little easier. My wife use to volunteer at Judi's House |
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[#26]
Thanks. That paints a much better picture for a child to envision your animal.
Good for her re Judi's house. |
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[#27]
All animals submitted have their dossier's completed. I await an extra pic or two for Skittles.
The way I've decided to approach the kids is this: I tell them that they will be able to adopt an animal angel to give to their human angel. I don't let them see any of the dossiers. I tell them I have to find out about their deceased loved one so I can find the best possible match for them to adopt. They get so eager to see what I pick out for them that they throw caution to the wind and tell me whatever I ask about! After the interview I pick 2 animals that match the personality or needs of the kid's human angel. I place the 2 choices in a folder. The suspense builds. By now the kid is climbing out of their chair to see. I show them the pics and read them the profile. Then they choose one animal (or one animal per lost family member ). |
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Thanks guys. Now I have a Bruiser and a bison!
Bruiser: If you have any pics of Bruiser solo, great. If not I'll crop your mug out of it! Major: Holy crap! What an awesome beast! |
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Thanks guys. Now I have a Bruiser and a bison! Bruiser: If you have any pics of Bruiser solo, great. If not I'll crop your mug out of it! Major: Holy crap! What an awesome beast! View Quote Thank you for what you are doing. While helping children you are also helping two adults deal with a loss |
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Name: Bruiser Nick Name: Bruise Gender: Male Breed: mix - collie/GSD/retriever Owners: Nathan Where They Came From: stray They Lived In: small town/rural setting Favorite Treat: cheese - any time you opened a Kraft singles wrapper, he would come running from where ever he was. Favorite Trick: too smart for tricks Favorite Activity: carrying a walking stick in his mouth on a walk Dislikes: UPS drivers Where Did They Sleep?: basement. When it was time for bed, he would go to the basement. It was a great place for him to sleep. It was warm in winter (wood stove) and cool in the summer (some of the basement was still dirt). Mischief: He would chew one shoe of a pair of shoes when he was mad he was left alone at home Funny Thing They Did: Nothing particularly funny, but he was amazingly smart. His had a huge understandable vocabulary. He could tell his female dog friend was coming towards the house when she was still out of sight and over 1000 yards away. (This still amazes me 25 years later). My Animal is Special Because: He was my first dog. He was my childhood friend. http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m78/Ironmaker/img008_zps6efa502d.jpg http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m78/Ironmaker/img009_zps471ee022.jpg http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m78/Ironmaker/img010_zpsfd06ea45.jpg If you want a picture of just the dog, let me know. In the top pic you can see one of his favorite chew toys...an old leather glove. We let him play with snakes. We lived on the north side of a mountain, so there were no poisonous snakes around, only black snakes, garter snakes etc. |
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I hope you understand I'm making up this program as I go. What I've decided to do is different than I originally described here. By interviewing each child individually I was hoping to gain insight into the child's loss to pass on to their counselor. We did this with one child as a test case 2 months ago and it worked wonderfully. However, since me and my therapy dogs are a small part of the program we were unable to interview any more children due to time constraints (and this was the smallest group we've had. Maybe 10 kids.)
What I ended up doing was similar to what I did with you guys, the pet donors. I made a form asking them to describe the best memories about their human loss. Then during free time before they broke up for group counseling I spread a selection of animal profiles on a table. The child had to bring a parent (or however was in that roll now) to the table and agree to 1) allow the child to participate and 2) agree to fill out the form about their loss and return it to me. Only then could they choose an animal. Selection was interesting to say the least. I only wish I had more children so all the animals could have been chosen this go round. Every family loved the idea and every animal was ewed and awed over. Some children went back and forth and some snatched up a particular animal and never considered another. Seeing how each kid reacted to the animals and which one they chose and HOW they chose was very interesting but I don't know how to expand on that with out spewing pages of info. Hopefully I'll receive the letters in 2 weeks. How about I share what my test case boy wrote? I have the families permission and he can't be identified. Background: He was under 6 at the time and received 2 animals since he suffered multiple losses in the year before he turned up in our group. His great grandmother died first followed by his grandfather, Bobo and his father lastly. One month into his first session with us his mother abandoned him and he was brought to us by his grandmother Gigi. Towards the end of the first session "Mom" was back petitioning for custody but disappeared again right before Christmas. He is a beautiful boy. Hyperkinetic and highly intelligent the words that come out of his mouth don't always sound like a child's. He and "Gigi" misunderstood that they were supposed to write to the animal donor but I like what they did and left it. Please notice that the boy literally sees the animals going to his angels, passing messages of love and addressing a concern the boy had for his angels, loneliness and forgetting him. He wrote: "Dear Daddy, I miss you so much and I wish I could see you again. I think you miss me too so I found a way to make you happy. I found a doggie that is like Bear to send to you. He is a German Shepherd named Niko and likes to take hikes, play ball and sleep with people like Bear did. Daddy, I hope you like him and will think of me when you are with him. I think about you everyday and talk about you all the time. I love you Daddy. I am trying my best to be a good boy just like you wanted me to. Love, Aiden." "Dear Bobo, I am sending you a friend to keep you company since you aren't with Gigi and me anymore. Her name is Charleigh. She is a kitty just like Claudia was. She likes to sit in the sun and keep warn and she likes to paw at peoples ankles like Claudia did. Gigi and I miss you so much, Bobo. We talk about you and I'm spending time with Gigi just like you asked me to. I love you and miss sitting on your lap. Here is a kiss for you and I hope you like your new friend to keep you company. Love Aiden." Thanks again to everyone that participated. |
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[#39]
Thanks for the wascally wabbit.
I also remember Molly Mcbutter's pic from the pet memorial thread, I believe. |
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Due to the nature of the counseling I volunteer with I am unable to share much of what is happening with Adopt an Angel. Thanks to Aiden's family I was permitted to show you some impact your generosity is having.
It seems that every time I talk with someone about what I'm doing or sit and review/reorganize the profiles and stories I've collected, new ways of using them pop up. Here's what's new: 1) When a child adopts an angel they will get a small stack of Angel trading cards of their new animal. They can trade cards among the children in the group in order to encourage interaction and discussion of both the animals and the person that was lost. Plus it will increase the impact each animal memory will have AND it will be fun. 2) I was sharing early successes with a psychologist professor friend of mine last weekend and she wants to collaborate on an academic paper about our angels as well as have my me and my dog give a lecture to this years Child Development class at UC. 3) I've opened discussion with the director of Bereavement at Cincinnati Children's Hospital Hospice to see if she can use this in her programs. 4) Just now as I'm typing out an email to the above Director another idea creeps into my head. They don't just deal with the surviving children after a death. They are dealing with children as they are dying. I'm wondering if....Would a dying child be comforted by knowing an animal angel was waiting love them in the afterlife? |
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They look good, and good luck with the lecture/paper and Cinci Childrens.
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[#45]
They look good, and good luck with the lecture/paper and Cinci Childrens.
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A huge thank you to LutzNutz! He stepped up and jazzed up the card designs and made them much nicer.
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