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Originally Posted By BayEagle:
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/06/I-dont-believe-you.gif just kidding All great news! Me and the family still pray for y'all. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Originally Posted By BayEagle:
Originally Posted By FW_wife:
<Snip> No kids were grounded! http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/06/I-dont-believe-you.gif just kidding All great news! Me and the family still pray for y'all. I laughed out loud at this one, I swear! Hard to believe myself. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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That ledge looks fantastic! How long did it take you to cover up the stone & remove the closet?
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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I was browsing through AR15.com and I stumbled upon this thread and I was curious how it was 411 pages long.
Wow what an amazing thread. God Bless |
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I don't think this thread is actually 411 pages. I think it morphed somehow when it was moved to the memorial area.
In other news... have you heard? http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1914760_Guess_which_ARFCOMmer_I_m_marrying____prizes_for_the_winner_s____re_updated.html |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Kudos to the late OP for having fine taste in women, and his son is a pure delight. I think Jeff would be pleased to know the 18 year old got a brand new SUB-2000 in 9x19mm for her 18th birthday. I had to drive to Odessa to get it. |
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It's -2 here in Kansas this morning, but it's a Beautiful Day in Paradise.
I said a little prayer for you and your family this morning. I'm sure Jeff is pleased knowing you're all warm, safe, and happy; he wouldn't want it any differently for you. God Bless. |
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The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.' - Ronald Reagan
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Originally Posted By Repairman_Jack:
It's -2 here in Kansas this morning, but it's a Beautiful Day in Paradise. I said a little prayer for you and your family this morning. I'm sure Jeff is pleased knowing you're all warm, safe, and happy; he wouldn't want it any differently for you. God Bless. View Quote Many thanks Repairman. And the very best wishes to you and your family. You're very sweet to remember. Glad I'm in Texas where it is still above freezing. -2 sounds dreadful! Maybe my weather app has been hacked, but the forecast shows a high of 72 this coming Sunday, though a low of 25 tonight! THAT'S why my clothes now occupy the entire closet - I need access to summer AND winter clothes. That's what we're telling the fiance anyway. Shhhh. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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This is obviously a rough time of year for me. It starts before Thanksgiving, when I remember how badly Jeff wanted to come home after spending so much time in the ICU/hospital, but he really wasn't ready. I still have his texts where he threatened to walk home if I didn't come pick him up. He texted that his oncologist said he was ready to go. (I texted his oncologist directly, who promptly denied he said anything of the sort.) Jeff charmed everyone into believing he was okay enough. He got home and got to the couch. And then couldn't get off the couch. It was too low and he didn't have enough strength in his legs to get up. He was too heavy for me to lift but we rigged something with a walker and pillows and a belt just to get him off the couch... It was painful to see him struggle.
The day after he got home, he had an appointment in Dallas for transplant evaluation and could barely get in and out of the car. He wanted to be okay. And I let him think that he was okay; let him believe that I thought he was okay and that he would have the transplant and get better. Looking back now, I knew he was probably discharged from the hospital too early, but I didn't know just how close we were to the end. We were both still hopeful. So here we are three years later and it's still painful. This is the one day when I just want to crawl in a hole and do nothing. Maybe it's a good thing that there are appointments and things to do today that prevent me from going to that dark place. My wonderful man helps tremendously too. He's very understanding and actually wants me to dump all this on him. I don't usually like to share the bad stuff. I don't like people to worry, especially about me. I'm pretty skilled at keeping a brave, happy face, but I allow myself at least this one day to crumble. Just a little. Tomorrow will be better. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Originally Posted By FW_wife:
This is obviously a rough time of year for me. It starts before Thanksgiving, when I remember how badly Jeff wanted to come home after spending so much time in the ICU/hospital, but he really wasn't ready. I still have his texts where he threatened to walk home if I didn't come pick him up. He texted that his oncologist said he was ready to go. (I texted his oncologist directly, who promptly denied he said anything of the sort.) Jeff charmed everyone into believing he was okay enough. He got home and got to the couch. And then couldn't get off the couch. It was too low and he didn't have enough strength in his legs to get up. He was too heavy for me to lift but we rigged something with a walker and pillows and a belt just to get him off the couch... It was painful to see him struggle. The day after he got home, he had an appointment in Dallas for transplant evaluation and could barely get in and out of the car. He wanted to be okay. And I let him think that he was okay; let him believe that I thought he was okay and that he would have the transplant and get better. Looking back now, I knew he was probably discharged from the hospital too early, but I didn't know just how close we were to the end. We were both still hopeful. So here we are three years later and it's still painful. This is the one day when I just want to crawl in a hole and do nothing. Maybe it's a good thing that there are appointments and things to do today that prevent me from going to that dark place. My wonderful man helps tremendously too. He's very understanding and actually wants me to dump all this on him. I don't usually like to share the bad stuff. I don't like people to worry, especially about me. I'm pretty skilled at keeping a brave, happy face, but I allow myself at least this one day to crumble. Just a little. Tomorrow will be better. View Quote I know how you feel, Reta; this time of year is bittersweet for me, too. It's funny, I have that "one day" where I crawl in a hole, shut everyone out, and just let myself feel. I use that day to assess where I am and where I'm going. It's very cathartic. In 16 years, I've only had one time where I've allowed myself to go out for human contact on that day. I spent it with friends and had a good time, but I missed the solitude and wisdom I gained from "my day". (And yes, I'm well aware how illogical that probably sounds, but hey, it works for me.) One thing that does help me, though, is knowing that there are people out there that care about me. Just knowing helps me to remain centered and gives me strength. I guess that's why I wrote this in the first place, to let you know that somewhere out there is a person you've never met, but who cares about you and your family. I also know what you mean about the brave face. Reading that reminded me of a stanza from a poem I wrote a long time ago...on one of those "days", as it just so happened. "He grins and lies as he says his “Hi’s”, Yes, everything is good now. Yet watch his eyes, Blue drops of skies, Hurt stones upon his good brow." |
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The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.' - Ronald Reagan
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I have been following a thread in which a fellow ARFCOM member needed some help and we has a community have once again came to the rescue. Its been making me think of Jeff.LINK
I hope everyone is doing well. Rita I decided I want to try and come meet you this summer. |
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RIP Jeff Reed
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She's on the phone w/ Jeff's mom as I post this. We've got a fairly busy summer planned - shoot her an IM and we'll work out a schedule.
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I can only wish you happiness ma'am!
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Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.
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Something drove me to go back through this thread. I didn't start at the very beginning, only the halfway point. I read every post way back then, but this time I was looking for something. I wasn't quite sure what I was looking for until I found it - Jeff's last post (at least in this thread). Number 3002.
Of course, I am again humbled by all the arfcommers' support - posting at all hours of the day and night, from all over the globe, pics of puppies and sunsets, pics of the latest build or kill, jokes, sharing stories, and appreciation for a little wake-up call. I've tried to commit more screen names to memory. My family seems bigger now. I can almost hear his voice in his posts. His rambling, unfiltered, heart-on-his-sleeve, open-book thoughts. He could tell someone their idea is the most idiotic idea ever but in the most endearing way. He could sell ice cubes to an Eskimo. He'd bend over backwards for those he loved...and he loved everyone. He was a good sport, had a quick wit, loved stupid jokes, and had a crazy mischievous streak. He also hid a lot of hurt - his heart just swallowed it up. It's a bit random that this surfaces now. There's really no significant event or date that would usually make me think of him. Backbencher put it well, though. He says I'm in a comfortable place so this surfaces in little pieces when I'm able to deal with them. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Originally Posted By FW_wife: I wasn't quite sure what I was looking for until I found it - Jeff's last post (at least in this thread). Number 3002. View Quote http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_151/1549944_REST-IN-PEACE.html&page=158#i44235679 Someone asked if the Sinister will be taught to shoot. Yes. Jeff left him a Cricket .22" LR, among other things. He's got several AirSoft guns now, and @ Christmas he got a 175 lb draw crossbow to hunt squirrels w/ in the backyard. (I have to build a backstop behind the squirrel feeder 1st). |
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Laid down 3 hours ago when this thread caught my eye....
3 hours later, and a lot of tears, I feel blessed to have read this thread. I have seen the love and compassion of a group of strangers come to the surface to confront an awful tragedy with love, humor, and respect. I will be waking up tomorrow and getting myself tested and registered as a donor. Prayers to Jeff and his wonderful family, I'm glad to see that the healing process in full swing. |
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Originally Posted By Trikky74:
Laid down 3 hours ago when this thread caught my eye.... 3 hours later, and a lot of tears, I feel blessed to have read this thread. I have seen the love and compassion of a group of strangers come to the surface to confront an awful tragedy with love, humor, and respect. I will be waking up tomorrow and getting myself tested and registered as a donor. Prayers to Jeff and his wonderful family, I'm glad to see that the healing process in full swing. View Quote Thank you for the well wishes. I'm surprised anyone just "stumbles" upon this thread anymore. And good for you for getting tested and registered. Maybe you'll be a match some day! There are amazing people here. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Hey, just dropping in to see how you're doing. I happened to be thinking of you and Jeff today and figured I'd say, "Hi". It snowed here Saturday and today it's well on its way to 80* outside. Gotta love N. Kansas weather! |
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The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.' - Ronald Reagan
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We're actually headed to buy the marriage license right now, with the Sinister in the backseat.
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The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.' - Ronald Reagan
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Bought a wedding dress! I couldn't bring myself to order one online from China. With the wedding date approaching quickly, I didn't want to risk waiting on a dress to be made, shipped, etc.
I've been busy making curtain rods out of electrical conduit and giant curtains out of painter's dropcloths for the patio. Today I mowed the yard, and started cleaning out the gutters before I realized I hadn't had lunch. Backbencher is allergic to earth, so while I was playing in the dirt he took Travis on errands. All the kids are good. Spring Break is coming to an end. The oldest has been invited to join Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society, so she's doing well in school. Middle child is getting over Strep. (Yes, over Spring Break, poor thing.) Travis is happy as a clam. (What makes us think clams are happy?) He came in this evening laughing so hard he was crying. "The Amazing World of Gumball" is a twisted show but keeps him in stitches. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Originally Posted By FW_wife:
Bought a wedding dress! I couldn't bring myself to order one online from China. With the wedding date approaching quickly, I didn't want to risk waiting on a dress to be made, shipped, etc. I've been busy making curtain rods out of electrical conduit and giant curtains out of painter's dropcloths for the patio. Today I mowed the yard, and started cleaning out the gutters before I realized I hadn't had lunch. Backbencher is allergic to earth, so while I was playing in the dirt he took Travis on errands. All the kids are good. Spring Break is coming to an end. The oldest has been invited to join Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society, so she's doing well in school. Middle child is getting over Strep. (Yes, over Spring Break, poor thing.) Travis is happy as a clam. (What makes us think clams are happy?) He came in this evening laughing so hard he was crying. "The Amazing World of Gumball" is a twisted show but keeps him in stitches. View Quote Congratulations and all the best to you all |
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Big Easy Snow :If I want you to feel loved, I'm going to feed you and fuck you silly
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Took the Sinister shooting today. .22" LR, mostly subsonic Aguila, with a little bulk Federal HPs that Fatalwishes left. He preferred shooting my grandfather's Arminius revolver, though I had to cock it for him. I think it was about weight, as the .22" LR upper on the lightweight GWACS lower had a giant .223" can @ the far end. I didn't have him shoot the Lyndon, as there's no trigger guard & the safety doesn't work properly yet. I also need to set my Stag lower back up w/ the carbine stock IOT adjust the length of pull, and I need to get an ambi-safety for him.
He also shot one round from motown_steve's suppressed Glock 19. Despite the slide length suppressor, there's still a bit of kick, and he didn't like it. We'll break him in w/ recoil on the crossbow. |
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Bump for wedding pics.
Hope y'all are doing well. |
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The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.' - Ronald Reagan
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You'll have to head to Team to see the video. I'll get pics up sometime too.
http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_75/1998627_.html&page=1&anc=66317001#i66317001 |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Congratulations on the weddding, I've been following since the beginning.
I have a geissele "F cancer" trigger in the rifle I took coyote hunting on Friday night, always makes me think of you guys. |
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Originally Posted By JimPope: Congratulations on the weddding, I've been following since the beginning.
I have a geissele "F cancer" trigger in the rifle I took coyote hunting on Friday night, always makes me think of you guys. View Quote Jeff requested a #42 trigger, because #42 is the meaning of life, the universe and everything. Geissele is a top-notch company in my book. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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But you should see her lose her mind when I put plastic in the trash or styrofoam in the recycling bin.
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I'm the lucky son-of-a-gun who married FW_wife.
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CONGRATS to both of you, and to Jeff for the impact he's had on all of us!
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"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing."
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Thanks to you, GoatBoy, your da, and the rest of the gang for bringing us together.
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I'm the lucky son-of-a-gun who married FW_wife.
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Just checking up on you fine folks. Hope everyone is OK in all the weather you're getting.
Stay safe. |
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We're on the opposite end of the state from that stuff. Better to hit Houston than New Orleans - Houston can handle it a lot better.
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I'm the lucky son-of-a-gun who married FW_wife.
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Geissele has a thread going with triggers for Houston, it reminded me of my Jeff trigger. Thought I'd check in on you guys, see how things are going. Looks like everything is going well for you! RIP smudge!
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"Oh look, Edward. That guy with the rage face comic avatar on the assault rifle forum is speaking ill of the salade I so enjoy. That settles it. I'm not voting for Ted Cruz." - AlamTX
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Totally random post, but...
Conversation in the hot tub this evening: Me: Travis, do you have a girlfriend? Travis: Well, I dunno Me (totally knocked off guard because EVERY answer until now has been an immediate 'no'): What to you mean you don't know? What's her name? Where does she live? Do you sit together? Do you hold hands? Does she say you're her boyfriend? Is she funny? Is she nice?..... Travis: Umm... Her name is Grace? She's in my house? Umm... Me: Wait. Travis, is she a friend who happens to be a girl? Travis: Yeah, yeah. Me: (WHEW!) Okay, bud. That's good. This mom is sooo not ready! |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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I'm the lucky son-of-a-gun who married FW_wife.
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Dear, when you read this, I want you to know that I'm grateful you choose happy.
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I'm the lucky son-of-a-gun who married FW_wife.
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The Repairman remembers. RIP Jeff.
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The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.' - Ronald Reagan
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Copland Appalachian Spring (Ormandy, 1955) |
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I'm the lucky son-of-a-gun who married FW_wife.
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Originally Posted By backbencher:
Dear, when you read this, I want you to know that I'm grateful you choose happy. View Quote |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Stay in a Round Room You'll Never get Cornered
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Originally Posted By FW_wife:
All is well in our household. Hard to believe it's been four years. I took the day off yesterday, as I do every year, and did some baking. I also got started on a couple Christmas gift projects. I recently completed my office/library project. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/372082/20171020_152558-386138.jpghttps://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/372082/20171123_212129-386139.jpghttps://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/372082/20171118_215827-386144.jpg Backbencher now has Jeff's reloading room mostly to himself and is grateful for the space. I still have my sewing machine in there but there's nowhere else to put it at the moment. The kids are doing well, though Travis is currently fighting a cold. The girls are almost done with the fall semester at community college. Kristen is doing well at her job. We're fortunate to have our loved ones around us, food on the table, and a roof over our heads. This year has been rough for many. Hell, the little scuffles that broke out with the mere idea of a gas shortage after the hurricane (we're in North Texas) made me remember that desperation can bring out the worst in people. Again, we're fortunate we have our heads on straight! Love to all of Arfcom. View Quote I'm VERY happy to see that you're doing well. |
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Always good to hear updates, know how you guys are doing, and remember Jeff.
Thanks for keeping us posted. It is a reminder to make the most of every day. |
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Hey gang! Has anyone told you lately how awesome you are? Because you are. You're a crazy bunch of misfits, but I love you all. Sappy, but every now and then it hits me how surreal the past five years have been - through Jeff's treatment, his passing, our healing, finding comfort here at ARFCOM, countless mind-occupying projects, feeling human again, dating again, marrying again, and settling into a new groove.
You helped Jeff and our family through a most trying time and have continued to stand by me and the kids, and this backbencher fella. I just want to again express my gratitude for the folks on this site. You're not just words on a screen. You're a shoulder to cry on, a sounding board for venting, innumerable words of wisdom, and always good for a chuckle. You're an extension of our family. I can't imagine where we'd be without you. |
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Rest in Peace Jeff Reed. Love you forever.
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Stay in a Round Room You'll Never get Cornered
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Originally Posted By FW_wife:
Hey gang! Has anyone told you lately how awesome you are? Because you are. You're a crazy bunch of misfits, but I love you all. Sappy, but every now and then it hits me how surreal the past five years have been - through Jeff's treatment, his passing, our healing, finding comfort here at ARFCOM, countless mind-occupying projects, feeling human again, dating again, marrying again, and settling into a new groove. You helped Jeff and our family through a most trying time and have continued to stand by me and the kids, and this backbencher fella. I just want to again express my gratitude for the folks on this site. You're not just words on a screen. You're a shoulder to cry on, a sounding board for venting, innumerable words of wisdom, and always good for a chuckle. You're an extension of our family. I can't imagine where we'd be without you. View Quote |
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Damn. It's 2 am here and I just read this whole damn thread. Read through beautifuldayinparadise.com too. I was inspired to find out more about Jeff after receiving a gift from Greg in celebration of his wedding to Reta. This whole thing hit me hard. Cancer is a bitch. My future brother in law is only 27 and he was just diagnosed with refractive diffuse large B-cell non-Hodgkin lymphoma and is now fighting the dragon for a second time. It really sneaks up on you, because like Jeff and Reta experienced, you first go through this "Lymphoma is curable!" optimistic phase, then with every setback, you're kinda not expecting it.
Anyway, I just wanted to drop in and say this community is amazing. I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss, @FW_Wife. And Happy Anniversary with @backbencher. Keep on choosing happy - Skyler |
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