When a band and a production team are hired to play a party, and it ends at midnight, then it ENDS at midnight.
If an event planner wants the party to continue, he/she must negotiate overtime BEFORE midnight.
It's great when everyone is drinking and grooving and having a blast. When the party is over, however, the band cannot be expected to continue to entertain the crowd on their own time. And at 12:01 it is the
band's time. The partygoers might grumble and complain, but it is extremely rude to ask musicians to keep working if they HAVE NOT OFFERED TO KEEP PAYING THEM.
And if the event coordinator, promotor, venue owner, or whomever else is shitty drunk while taking issue with any of this, then they can just fuck the ever living fuck off. I get so damn sick of drunk asses trying to put upon me when I am attempting to get home after a long day. You don't have to go home, but
I want to go home. Drunk fucks acting like I'm under some personal obligation to keep participating, as if my involvement in the event is in some way social.
Ugh.