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Truly awesome. Thank you for sharing.
My pastor made a good point about requiem masses in his homily last Sunday. He said to make sure you request it in your will that you have a Catholic requiem mass because he has seen pius individuals who attended mass daily denied any funeral mass because their family just didn't care.
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Yes, I have heard the stories. I think that may have come up here on Arf, or possibly some other online group I was a part of. In that family's case, one of the children was an anti-Catholic and causing trouble, even though it was in the will of the deceased.
Of course, the opposite can be just as scandalizing. Where someone who has long had a reputation for not living a very Catholic life, suddenly gets a full Requiem, even at a parish they didn't attend, ever. That's when you have to put full trust in your priest that they are making the right decision.