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For the absolute best sealing job on a trans pan forget about pre-made cork, rubber or other new and improved gasket materials. All you need is a pressurized can of the Permatex gasket maker called 'The Right Stuff.' It will never leak. I've been using it for over ten years on a professional level on just about every make/model...with few exceptions. It's also great for making valve cover, oil pan and other gaskets.
It's fast, just clean and dry both mating surfaces (install new filter if applicable) squeeze a bead around the trans pan to form gasket, bolt everything together. You don't even have to worry about torque specs, just snug it up nicely in a typical cross pattern. After that it's just fill with new fluid and go. There's no need to wait for anything to dry, it works instantly.
I like the sound of this stuff, but can you get the pan off for the next service or do you just trade the car off?
I've always had very good luck with just cork gaskets.
Sometimes I'll glue the gasket to the pan with Aviation gasket maker if it looks like I might bump it getting it into place. Just a thin film on the pan, a few clothespins to hold the gasket in place, go inside for a beer break, go back out, install, fill and go.
My guess is the gasket came all wadded up in a small box didn't it, cripes I fvcking hate that.
If you can get the pan flipped over without the gasket moving and put something heavy on the pan, that works too. Just double check your bolt holes before you leave it.
Be aware that anything you put on the gasket has the potential to go into the pan and through the filter while it's still in it's uncured state and collect in the valve body and stick a spool valve. Not a big fan of silicone for this reason.
Hope you get it sealed up.