Yeah I figured it out now. What was confusing me was that I didn't know what the modems management IP was or even if it had one in transparent bridging mode. Since the router in this case is handling the ISP authentication and soliciting an external IP from the ISP DHCP server. Essentially the router is looking directly through the DSL modem at the ISP.
What I missed (duh) was that the routers WAN port was connected to the modem. Of course I could not see past it! Once I gave my laptop a static IP of 192.168.0.2 and plugged it into the modem LAN port (not the router) I essentially had a small two device network. The modem management network 192.168.0.1 and my laptop 192.168.0.2. They couldn't do shit but talk to each other but that is all I need. So the original management network was still there I just needed to look at through a LAN port and not a WAN port. Incidentally I believe I could use a static route to allow the modem GUI to be accessed but since I rarely need to get into the actual model I'll just use a static IP NIC.
This confirmed I'm no networking genius.