The hard anodized one in either size.

I have what I think is an irrational fear of aluminum cookware. The weight is perfect, but I am afraid of completely destroying it (no idea how other than literally throwing it into the fire for the night)

The Mors pot looks like basically the perfect pot, big enough to nest a few things inside and boil water for more than one person, a bail, handles, and a spout and somewhat non-stick.

How easily does the anodizing scratch, my spork is aluminum also, and how does it handle dents incase my pack gets dropped?

Very well Made...wood cooking tool or plastic eating tool would work better.
Pretty solid kit.....no dents yet...very light....I think you will like it...

You probably already know this but aside from a few cheapo mess kits everything I have is stainless steel.

How big is the Mors pot?  I use a snowpeak kettle #1.

If it gets a few dents in it, will it have any effect on its utility at all?