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Posted: 4/30/2012 8:56:30 AM
THE IMAGE ABOVE IS A PAID ADVERTISEMENT Last night we were walking back to the car after a concert. She asked me if I would let her go back to her car to get her tennis shoes and I said of course. We were 2 blocks from her car and about two miles from my house. Now here is the issue. She lives 20 miles away. She has several dogs and her parents ( 85+ years old and in great health ) are not far from her house. She always insists that she would have to go back to get her dogs and her parents. She constantly asks how we would go get them. I tell her I cannot comment as I don't know specific circumstances. I have dogs and I love them, but would I walk 20 miles to get then, carry food back to location "A": NO! Not in an EMP situation. As to her parents, they are great people and have been very good to me, but not knowing where they would be, not having means of communication with them, would I risk my safety and the safety of those gathered with me to hike a day and a half and return taking at least 3 days for them to be able to walk back seems like an exercise in stupidity. I think it is pointless to get my GF to see the futility in her position but not sure if I should give up or keep trying her to see reason. Thoughts? |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 8:58:32 AM
never hurts to have a like-minded person.... she may have ideas you never thought of
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Posted: 4/30/2012 9:17:44 AM
Libraries of books have been written on that very subject, a emotional choice vs a rational choice. There is no right answer.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 9:58:20 AM
[Last Edit: 4/30/2012 10:00:42 AM by Herndez]
In a similar circumstance, my attempted solution was to look for a way to retain transportaion after an EMP.
I've got a early 80's diesel VW that is all mechanical (aside from wiper relays, etc,) so even if the worst predictions turn out to be accurate, it should run. My estimation is that it will take a little time for panic to begin. That "normal" folks will still not be desperate enough to pull a gun to try to hijack me within the first couple of hours of an event. My read is confusion for a few hours, but not yet panic and desperation. The route I need to take is mostly rural, and lightly populated. Spoilers to my plan include: 1) I'm wrong about the time it takes for people to panic. 2) Dead vehicles blocking the roadway 3) Problems with my vehicle 4) People I am going to get were not at home or close to home when the event occurs..I get there and they aren't there. Tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock... 5) Completely unrelated bolt from the blue: Aircraft crashes on my car, etc. Will it work? I don't know. I hope time will never tell. But it's a solution that seems workable to me, and better than nothing. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 10:16:06 AM
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Posted: 4/30/2012 11:09:35 AM
Two things you can bring up...
1) Ask her what her thoughts on taking the trip are if there was a reasonable chance that one or the other of you may not survive the trip (If you have accounted for firearms in your preps, then you have already understood that there is the possibility of a dangerous conrontation). 2) You can see about bringing the idea up that she prepare her parents and set up a default plan that if SHTF happens tthey automatically travel to your location. It would take less time than a 3 day trip, risk less people, and they would have to walk a day and a half either way so win-win. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 11:12:27 AM
most of us here werry about falling off the the edge of the world more than an EMP event. think about that for a min and see if you/she still feels the same way.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 11:16:57 AM
If you can't find a way to carry her baggage ( parents, dogs...) you have to find a lady with less baggage. I choose to keep the lady and move her baggage closer to to me. FIL lives close by, EMP truck, BOL that will handle all of us.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 11:24:56 AM
Lets face it, the reality of an EMP event is extremely low on the reasons why we prep list. I would encourage her to develop a plan to rescue the dogs and parents. This lets her understand the challenges you are talking about, and also makes her think critically about how to resolve such problems. I would shy away from "fuck the dogs, and good luck with the parents", as this can only hurt the relationship. Why start a rift between you two on a subject that has a 99 percent chance of never happening?
Having said that, I would certainly plan for the addition of the dogs and pets in your prepping activities, as obviously they will be at your place come SHTF. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:06:58 PM
Originally Posted By Herndez:
In a similar circumstance, my attempted solution was to look for a way to retain transportaion after an EMP. I've got a early 80's diesel VW that is all mechanical (aside from wiper relays, etc,) so even if the worst predictions turn out to be accurate, it should run. And your fuel cutoff solenoid. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:19:43 PM
85+ years old is a really long time. Even in great health, they could stroke out on the walk back.
Not to be mean or anything, but they aren't going to be leading the charge to rebuild or repopulate the earth. And everybody dies sooner or later. You might be better off convincing your gf that they need their own preps if shtf instead of you going to get them. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:50:49 PM
It's tough to think about. My parents live in Idaho, and for a couple of years I was working in Arizona off and on. It's hard to prep when your full time living quarters is typically a camp trailer owned by the boss. The only thing I could think of in the situation I was in, (working with horses and mules in various locations and manners. Sometimes packing, shoeing, driving wagon, etc) and if it was TEOTWAWKI that I would have to find a way to secure a string of horses (most of my employers had somewhere between 75-100 animals, the last one had 145), pack my gear, and go. There was a map with a route planned out, etc.
The real dilema for me was that the easiest and least populated route would have been through Nevada, but for most of the time I was in AZ my youngest sister was in Salt Lake. Again, no comms, no way of knowing where to find her, very populated city, would have taken me a month or so to get there pulling a pack string. Makes for a lot of soul searching and running hypothetical scenarios through your head. Currently I'm living 25 miles from my parents, but one sister is looking at moving 900 miles away. My older sister lives 200 miles in another direction. It would make for another interesting situation. All that you can do is to plan and prepare for the worst and pray for the best. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 2:16:18 PM
a couple of tandem bicycles would greatly shorten the transportation time... add a small bike cart and some belonings could be transported
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Posted: 4/30/2012 2:22:58 PM
Originally Posted By R2point0:
Originally Posted By Herndez:
In a similar circumstance, my attempted solution was to look for a way to retain transportaion after an EMP. I've got a early 80's diesel VW that is all mechanical (aside from wiper relays, etc,) so even if the worst predictions turn out to be accurate, it should run. And your fuel cutoff solenoid. Covered! Mechanical valve in glovebox! It's a PITA, though. I have to put the car in nuetral, set the parking brake, pop the hood, turn the valve, then the car stops. Reverse to start it. I just leave the convenient electrical solenoid in place most of the time. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 2:28:20 PM
The biggest down side to havign your spouse on board is you burn up more ammo at the range with 2 of you shooting than just one.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 3:00:28 PM
EMP is the last thing you, your GF, or her parents, or her dogs should be worrying about.
What they SHOULD worry about, is having a bit of extra water, and supplies on hand, enough for stuff that they are likely to encounter.
That, and maybe make sure they don't have dimentia and end up getting scammed out of a bunch of money or otherwise victimized. That happens every day to lots of elders. EMP hasn't happened once, to anybody. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 4:32:38 PM
Come up with a plan to get the dogs and her parents. It will make her feel better. Maybe keep a bob st her parents place and her pace.
Its not like you will likely be in that situation anyway, just make up a reasonable plan and make her happy. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 4:38:32 PM
Bicycle built for three. Get one.
:) |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 4:57:11 PM
Originally Posted By joemama74:
85+ years old is a really long time. Even in great health, they could stroke out on the walk back. Not to be mean or anything, but they aren't going to be leading the charge to rebuild or repopulate the earth. And everybody dies sooner or later. You might be better off convincing your gf that they need their own preps if shtf instead of you going to get them . Valid points all, OP....and I tend to agree with your analysis. But the above opinion is very reasonable, too. |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 6:00:42 PM
Originally Posted By FreeBear:
Originally Posted By joemama74:
85+ years old is a really long time. Even in great health, they could stroke out on the walk back. Not to be mean or anything, but they aren't going to be leading the charge to rebuild or repopulate the earth. And everybody dies sooner or later. You might be better off convincing your gf that they need their own preps if shtf instead of you going to get them . Valid points all, OP....and I tend to agree with your analysis. But the above opinion is very reasonable, too. I figure that would fly better with the gf than "Hell no, I'm not going on a suicide mission to rescue your 85 year old parents." |
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Posted: 4/30/2012 9:24:43 PM
Originally Posted By Herndez:
Originally Posted By R2point0:
Originally Posted By Herndez:
In a similar circumstance, my attempted solution was to look for a way to retain transportaion after an EMP. I've got a early 80's diesel VW that is all mechanical (aside from wiper relays, etc,) so even if the worst predictions turn out to be accurate, it should run. And your fuel cutoff solenoid. Covered! Mechanical valve in glovebox! It's a PITA, though. I have to put the car in nuetral, set the parking brake, pop the hood, turn the valve, then the car stops. Reverse to start it. I just leave the convenient electrical solenoid in place most of the time. Nope - solenoid is normally closed, needs 12V to open. Just carry a spare and a couple of 6v lantern batterries in a .30 can. And always park on a hill. In summer. :) Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 5/1/2012 3:57:27 AM
Originally Posted By joemama74:
Originally Posted By FreeBear:
Originally Posted By joemama74:
85+ years old is a really long time. Even in great health, they could stroke out on the walk back. Not to be mean or anything, but they aren't going to be leading the charge to rebuild or repopulate the earth. And everybody dies sooner or later. You might be better off convincing your gf that they need their own preps if shtf instead of you going to get them . Valid points all, OP....and I tend to agree with your analysis. But the above opinion is very reasonable, too. I figure that would fly better with the gf than "Hell no, I'm not going on a suicide mission to rescue your 85 year old parents." OP, you have a GF, and now you have a moral obligation to include her folks in your plans. If EMP is a concern for you, just get an older all-mechanical car. Simple. I think you need to stop and realize just how lucky you are to have a GF that DOES understand what you are on about,, and she wants to participate. So many guys here would kill to have that, and you have it right from the start. You are blessed - capitalize on it. Include her folks in your prepping plans, or at least maybe run a few drills of "going to get them" sort of runs when the EMP does hit the fan. You and her will gel, and it'll be friggin awesome. You can definitely work this up to your advantage, so stop cryin and get her what she wants! |
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Posted: 5/1/2012 10:44:04 AM
You can get a decent M151 jeep for less than $15k, you know.
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Posted: 5/1/2012 11:10:17 AM
Telling your girlfriend her parents and dogs can FO and die when the EMP hits? Really? Some folks really are destined to live alone in the basement forever it seems. ![]() |
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Posted: 5/1/2012 11:52:47 AM
Originally Posted By Bubbatheredneck:
Telling your girlfriend her parents and dogs can FO and die when the EMP hits? Really? Some folks really are destined to live alone in the basement forever it seems. ![]() Pretty much sums it up. For me, it's saving my family and my dogs that means the most, not just surviving. |
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Posted: 5/1/2012 12:24:41 PM
My gf's parents died some years ago. So I don't have any inlaws to deal with. Yes, that was a plus for me when we met.
My parents are in their early 60's, have some land, livestock, garden, generator, storm shelter, etc and are about 30 minutes away. In many ways, they're better off than I am. Even with all that, I'd have to think long and hard to leave my place to go there in a shtf. I can get there via the backroads, but too many places to get ambushed or stranded. I'd have to be motivated, like if I was burned out or something. |
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