you're not holding your tongue right

chef
If you feel comfortable with a jewler's file, you could tweak the ejector and extractor a bit...
http://www.m1911.org/technic2.htm
Maybe use a firmer grip.
Or hold it like a ghangsta....homie.

Make sure you are using full power ammo. The compacts have a stiff (for good reason) recoil spring (~22lbs).