is there a good way for guys to solicit help from their women friends in finding someone to date.
Most women have a larger network of lady friends then the guys I know, and the fact that your friend would be better position to know who's more likely to be compatible with who.
feasible? act of desperation?
I once asked a girl out and she said I was too old for her. I told her, that's fine, we could still be friends, besides, hot women tend to hang with hot women and she could introduce me to her friends. She DID come through! but that was a LONG time ago.
Many women LOVE to play matchmaker. Let your women friends know you are looking, and you'd appreciate their help and I'll bet you get more offers than you expect. Good luck!
Make sure they have enough friends before you ask them.
Nothing sucks more than a girl with one undesirable friend continually trying to "make something happen" between you and the friend.
Kharn