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Posted: 5/18/2024 11:51:41 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Goodn]
I had a long story typed up as I sit and wait.. then my phone died before I could post it.  So...

I can say I am proud of my boys.  

I am sitting in the hospital. My wife is getting mri's

We got a 4 day weekend to go visit my boys and a friend. While sitting in the garage and having a good time the cheap ass piece of shit folding bench my wife was straddling collapsed and sent her backwards onto her head.  It sounded like a watermelon tossed on the concrete from the second floor, followed by a grunt/moan.  It happened so fast I didn't even register what was happening,  I couldn't stop it. I held her immobile and then went to get blankets and my son's took over.

My youngest boy straddled her head with his knees and immobilized her while my oldest spoke with and talked to her. Asking her questions.  Birthdate,  day,  month,  who he is.. etc etc.  

So here I am sitting waiting on her mri's and news on whats going on with her and just noticing her blood on my hand.  

I will say the officer that showed up initially because the dispatcher said alcohol was involved ended up being a very cool guy.  He was a bit miffed when I told him she hadn't had any drinks and the dispatcher was clearly told alcohol was not involved when they asked.  

The ambulance crew included my oldest and me in immobilizing her and back boarding her and lifting and loading her.  They were good people.  

And my boys..  I am proud of them.

Link Posted: 5/18/2024 11:54:01 PM EDT
[#1]
I’m praying that your wife is fine and has no serious injuries.
Link Posted: 5/18/2024 11:55:08 PM EDT
[#2]
Prayers and good luck.
Link Posted: 5/18/2024 11:55:09 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Goodn] [#3]
I don't know why..  I took a picture on the way back in after bringing the blankets.

Link Posted: 5/18/2024 11:56:55 PM EDT
[#4]
Prayers for the best outcome!
Link Posted: 5/18/2024 11:56:59 PM EDT
[#5]
Praying for your family OP. Congratulations on raising your kids properly, it feels good knowing they are listening.
Link Posted: 5/18/2024 11:57:05 PM EDT
[#6]
Prayers for your wife.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:00:42 AM EDT
[#7]
Sending prayers for your wife and family. Man that's scary. Well done boys.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:02:27 AM EDT
[#8]
Thanks for the prayers.  


I am told she seems to be more coherent and was upset they had to cut all her clothes off.

She had her nice clothes on because she was so excited to see the boys.

They cut off her Spyder and her under armor hoodies. Her nice dress pants and her bra.  


But I am still waiting to see her.  
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:05:38 AM EDT
[#9]
Prayers sent
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:05:47 AM EDT
[#10]
Praying for you and your family.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:14:35 AM EDT
[#11]
Well damn, dude!

Hope she's OK and back at home in a day or 2 with a good bill of health.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:23:51 AM EDT
[#12]
Wow, that's some scary stuff. Good job on everyone's part. I hope she's alright.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:27:04 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:28:39 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By RedAngus:
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Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:29:41 AM EDT
[#15]
I'll keep yall in my prayers brother
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:29:49 AM EDT
[#16]
Prayers for her, you, and all involved.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:30:07 AM EDT
[#17]
Scary indeed - hopefully a speedy, full recovery.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:30:10 AM EDT
[#18]
Hope the wife is fine, you got good boys goodn, you take care as well
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:33:56 AM EDT
[#19]
Prayers sent
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:37:01 AM EDT
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Prayers sent
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:38:15 AM EDT
[#21]
Op, I had similar happen a few weeks back. My dads
Blood pressure bottomed out on him and he collapsed in my driveway, bouncing his head off the concrete. I thought his heart had given out on him (long history of heart failure). We did similar, kept him still until the ambulance and fire arrived. He ended up with a head bleed but had a full recovery after a couple days monitoring him.

I hope your wife recovers as easily.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:39:52 AM EDT
[#22]
Prayers that all turns out alright
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:40:02 AM EDT
[#23]
Oh man.  Hopes for a full recovery.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:45:47 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Tango-22:
Op, I had similar happen a few weeks back. My dads
Blood pressure bottomed out on him and he collapsed in my driveway, bouncing his head off the concrete. I thought his heart had given out on him (long history of heart failure). We did similar, kept him still until the ambulance and fire arrived. He ended up with a head bleed but had a full recovery after a couple days monitoring him.

I hope your wife recovers as easily.
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Im still waiting to hear from anyone as to what's going on.  It's starting to worry and frankly anger me.  


She was complaining as she came too that her legs and arms were numb.  And that her neck hurts. Her hands became very cold.  She was moving her legs a little, which led me to believe it was more likely that her brain was "resetting" from the hit. She began to start becoming incoherent and mumbling. That prompted my buddy to call 911.

But we still needed to immobilize her and calm her.  


It was scaring the shit out of me.. but I couldn't show it. If my kids hadn't been there helping I am not sure I could have been so calm about it.  


I hope she is good.  But I am still waiting here for answers.  

Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:49:04 AM EDT
[#25]
My buddy just texted me..

His garage security camera caught the whole thing.  

She reached down to scratch her foot or ankle.. sat up and the bench legs folded and collapsed.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:51:36 AM EDT
[#26]
Prayers sent up!
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 12:59:58 AM EDT
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Thank you brother.  


Those boys have consistently made me proud.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 1:12:34 AM EDT
[#28]
Prayers your way!
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 1:44:00 AM EDT
[#29]
Ok.. now I am getting nervous..  I am still in the waiting room.  They say she is still in MRI and that a nurse will be out to talk to me.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 1:54:39 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Goodn:
Ok.. now I am getting nervous..  I am still in the waiting room.  They say she is still in MRI and that a nurse will be out to talk to me.
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She took a solid knock on the noggin, and even though she was talking and upset about them cutting up her clothes, they are going to be sure everything is ok, OP..  That will take a while.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 1:58:42 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Prijador:

She took a solid knock on the noggin, and even though she was talking and upset about them cutting up her clothes, they are going to be sure everything is ok, OP..  That will take a while.
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Originally Posted By Prijador:
Originally Posted By Goodn:
Ok.. now I am getting nervous..  I am still in the waiting room.  They say she is still in MRI and that a nurse will be out to talk to me.

She took a solid knock on the noggin, and even though she was talking and upset about them cutting up her clothes, they are going to be sure everything is ok, OP..  That will take a while.



Oh trust me I know.  

I am annoyed with getting no info and not being kept in the loop.  Twice in an hour I have been told a nurse will be out to talk with me.  So far.. nobody has said anything to me.  

That's bothering me.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 2:05:58 AM EDT
[Last Edit: Goodn] [#32]
Sorry for sounding a bit neurotic.  


I am with her now.  She can feel her legs and arms.  

They are worried she may have hurt her upper spine near her skull.  Waiting for the doctor.

The e put a much more stout c collar on her.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 2:10:23 AM EDT
[#33]
Prayers
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 2:12:17 AM EDT
[#34]
Damn thats scary. Hope she’s ok with just a lump on the head. Prayers out  for all of you
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 2:14:56 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Goodn:
My buddy just texted me..

His garage security camera caught the whole thing.  

She reached down to scratch her foot or ankle.. sat up and the bench legs folded and collapsed.
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Glad the fall wasn't caused by something worse like a stroke. Best wishes for your family.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 2:16:02 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/19/2024 2:19:16 AM EDT
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Prayers sent.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 3:02:21 AM EDT
[#38]
prayers
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 3:05:57 AM EDT
[#39]
Concussions suck, and can produce symptoms that last for months.  I had one last October when I fell and hit my noggin.  I don't think I was totally right in the head until mid-March.  Best of luck to your wife and family, OP.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 3:08:08 AM EDT
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Same here as well.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 3:39:49 AM EDT
[#41]
Prayers for you and your wife.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 4:01:42 AM EDT
[#42]
Well.  Thanks everyone.  

They've admitted her. Won't really know more until morning when the neuro gets In.   I'm going to try and get some sleep.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 4:31:42 AM EDT
[#43]
Prayers brother that everything will be ok.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 6:29:45 AM EDT
[#44]
How horrible! I can only imagine how you feel.  Prayers sent.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 6:31:11 AM EDT
[#45]
Best wishes for a good outcome.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 6:41:00 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/19/2024 6:43:14 AM EDT
[#47]
Prayers sent
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 6:43:31 AM EDT
[#48]
Praying for her, Goodn.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 7:07:10 AM EDT
[#49]
Prayers sent for your wife & you OP.
Link Posted: 5/19/2024 7:09:55 AM EDT
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I feel for ya, OP. Seems you've got some good kids and the right attitude. Y'all take care of that girl.
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