Shampoo (Selsun Blue), conditioner (Pantene 2-3 mins), then...
Blow dry with a round bristle brush grabbing from way underneath the beard and rolling away while blowdrying right on top of the hair and roller. I grab the center first way under the neck and roll away right up to my chin then go to each side til I get to the sideburns. The Mrs. can show you...not at all sayin' she's got a beard...
My beard is very wavy/curly and this does the trick.
Go figga...on an AR forum yet...